2006-09-13 22:59:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You married him, so you must have been attracted to him once. Has he let himself go? Maybe he needs to work out more, change his hair and clothes and make more of an effort to be sexy. Counseling might be a good place for you to tell your husband what he can do to make you happy.
2006-09-13 23:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me know .
1) Your Age
2) How old is Yr Marriage ?
3) U make love.. Wkly : once/twice/Thrice.
Solution & chk points
1) Jot down 5 things which u like most of yr husband & 5 which you don't
2) Concentrate more on positive point & discuss with yr husband openly for yr dislikes and try to ele\iminate same.
3) I hope he will understand yr problem and will reciprocate accordingly.
Note : Every coin has two sides, likewise no men is 100% perfect, these you come to know after spending some time with them.
Not to worry, yr problem will get sort out... if you concentrate more on resolving issue rather than making it.
Bye & Take care
2006-09-18 02:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Vijaypappu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe your husband must be old, ugly, fat and sloppy in his
physical appearance which may turn you off. I don't blame you
for that because it's a natural response for some people to be
'put off'.
There are some tips in which you can help improve your
husband's physical appearance:-
1. to reduce his size, weight and fat to a reasonable level
(he may look good physically once he slims down);
2. to improve on his sloppy position;
3. to improve on his facial and hair looks with some good
cosmetics to look younger.
Viola! You have a new man in him - physically and confidentally
attractive.
2006-09-14 06:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by steplow33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you didn't give a detail idea about the period of your married life;if it is very short may your husband is sexually weak person with respect to you,or it may he keeps a better sexully relation with another femail that satisfy him better.Try to find out your solution - Don't hesitate sex is no more great that you think.Make a romantic & lovely couple life.
2006-09-14 06:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get better help if you list things like how long you have been married, if you have ever felt attraction and if so how long has it been, and have there been any significant recent changes. I will be checking back to see if you revise your question and if so I will revise my answer
2006-09-14 06:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Be nice, or at least funny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself why theres no physical attraction and go from there. Did he do something that hurt your feelings? Talk to him or maybe talk to a counselor about it.
2006-09-14 06:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by STACEY S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the feeling is mutual you both need to sit and discuss.else find out the reason of ur such feeling.may that be a sheer ignorance from from ur husband side which puts u down. or her change of behavior towards u may be ................
resolve it and lead a gud life ..........
2006-09-14 06:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is very imp in any relationship.
speak to your husband and ask him to change his dressing sense and to look more attractive, ask him to join gym or maybe doing regular exercise at home itself.
in this way you willl start liking his personality and will communicate and will understand him more
2006-09-17 13:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by Hidimba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's the one that needs help. Zero in on what you don't find attractive and push him into fixing it. (unless he's just got an ugly face... you're kind of stuck with that)
2006-09-14 06:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by The anti-emo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no sure shot answer for your question, there is a lot of things involved in this ,& we need more details on ur single sentence question.
2006-09-16 04:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋