Really, feeling horny is always happened in me. I want to get out from it. But it is so hard. And then, I try to masturbate, but I want to stop it too! And sometimes, I saw gay porn... What should I do?
2006-09-13 22:44:11 · 16 answers · asked by Kpewee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dont go to the site.Go out and find a real person.
2006-09-13 22:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guilt is a very common feeling following sexual relief.
Why should you feel guilty about something so natural.
Be happy you can still masturbate, when you get old you won't be able to masturbate more than once a month. Enjoy.
There is really nothing wrong with masturbating. Even Jesus masturbated and Moses did it twice a day. Make sure you have a good diet with lots of minerals, fruit and fibre. Try and change hands too otherwise you might get an overdeveloped arm.
2006-09-14 03:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to substitute other things for what you are doing. Interact with friends. Get some exercise. Meet new people. Read. Watch a favorite show on television. Somehow, some way, you are going to have to make up your mind to break the habit. It may not happen all at once. You may have relapses, but you can do it.
2006-09-13 23:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No good to watch porn.no good to health.
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-09-14 14:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Search for Patrick Carnes and his writings, there are g/b/l/t friendly support groups to deal with these issues.
Also don't confuse compulsive issues with gender preference issues. It's ok to like whichever gender you do. Just deal with the compulsivity around internet porn.
2006-09-14 05:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by nonyahbusiness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many addictions out there
try reading or borrowing from library "out of the shadows"
it covers sexual addiction in many forms
and also things we dont' think addictive but we do it
it's about instant gratification and the cycle of conditioning yourself to get it, the feeling, the high the low and the search for the same
2006-09-14 01:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bear in mind that porn site get u nothing but wasting ur time..nothing special could happened..u should spend time with people..ask yourself again..what do u expect to happened with your attitude..u can't satisfy your sexual needs just by doing that masturbation..get socialised..porn could be entertained but its just that only u could get from the porn sites..
2006-09-13 22:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by atokboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a person with obsessive/compulsive personality disorders become addicted to pornography. There are groups that help with that.
2006-09-14 00:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just set a limit to yourself..
if u like it, it doesnt mean that u cant be a better person!
enjoy it while u can!
remember, set a limit to it... or else, you will be wasting a lot of time on it...
2006-09-14 20:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Travis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it like, once a week, or a day that doesn't interfere with anything you do.
2006-09-14 03:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋