i'm a guy.. i have a friend who really really really wants to have sex with me. i value my virginity a lot but it's too tempting.... i've always been asked if i have changed my mind... help help!
how do i resist temptation? i feel like the more i talk to my friend, the greater the chance that we'll have sex within a few weeks from now.. it's very very tempting....
2006-09-13 22:33:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
actually it's one of my best friends so we always go out a lot... it's difficult to stay away from a best friend right? what shall i do... i'm very tempted but i don't want to lose my virginity with a friend of mine.... help..
2006-09-13 22:41:14 · update #1
i'm in a dilemma... i don't know if i will lose it or not within just a few days.. need your help.. :(
2006-09-13 23:03:01 · update #2
i'm also afraid that once i have sex i will start doing it over and over again for the rest of my life... maybe even everyday if possible..
2006-09-13 23:04:35 · update #3
If you are that tempted it is screwing with your karma
either do it or become a priest
2006-09-13 22:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about how tempting it will be if you do it now and what you'll think nine months from then when you are a father of a child and you can no longer enjoy your youth because you have to grow up to take care of a baby. Not to mention the risk of STD'S and things of that nature. What would your parents say, and how would her family react? Virginity is a precious thing that shouldn't be wasted on something that turned out to be the wrong choice. If they truly cared about you, they would have thought about all these things and not try to pressure you. Sex will be there long after two weeks, trust me. I was once in the same boat you are in now. Save it for the right woman. Trust me it's worth it in the long run. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-14 05:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by zekemilli4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. Do it and get it out of your system!
If u really value your "virginity"( i thot u guys were extinct!!!), then keep reminding yourself of that and stay focussed.
Importnat point, no one can resist sexual temptation for long. There was only one who could do that.
****U didnt mention whether ur frien was a guy or chick. If its a guy...think how his "stuff" smells. That's doo the trick!!!
2006-09-14 05:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say no if you don't want too. It doesn't matter how much they tempt you. First ask the question to yourself, do you /really/ want to have sex? If it's no, then don't do it. Don't give into peer pressure. Hope it helps.
2006-09-14 05:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sex is part of human nature. If you are one of those people who truly want to wait until you are Married, then just tell your friend your views. If she is truly your friend then she should understand.
2006-09-14 05:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not strong enough to say no, remove yourself from the equation. take yourself out of the situation of temptation.
It will be difficult but you will appreciate it in the end.
Good luck
2006-09-14 05:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jon H 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
engage urself always in other jobs..when u r on bed..pray and sleep fast...also get to the bed only when u are very sleepy..when u go for bath..look the time..decide that u'll finish it in 5 or 10 mts...and finish bathing quickly..try not to be alon thinking..when u learn something read aloud..try to keep away from computers...think of god always...for more help contact me.
2006-09-14 05:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by me_who2006 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go date Rosie Palm and her five lovely daughters
2006-09-14 05:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 activity sports
2006-09-14 05:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude put it back in your trousers(pants if your american) and think about stuff that dont turn u on then tell her that u aint ready and u will let her no when the time is right
2006-09-14 05:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by bob s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋