Group 1 are his shirts, pants, socks, camera, books,etc Group 2 are many stuff he gave to me, ring, tv, tiny cabinet, cloth ,bag etc.
2006-09-13 22:26:23 · 20 answers · asked by boathouse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if it is his, be the bigger person and just give it back. No sense in making this worse.
2006-09-13 22:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you can do any of the below.
1. Post them back to him as long as it dont cost much or drop them at his place (if you need an excuse to see him again.)
2.Give it away to charity if it is stuff the less fortunate can use
3 keep the stuff that you need but cannot afford or sell to buy others i.e the camera, books ring (if it is worth much) tv and tiny cabinet.
4. for the cloths he bought you can give them out to you friends or younger siblings
Or you can simply burn them all up if the part of your heart where you had him is that black.
Do not do anything that you will regret.
2006-09-14 06:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gave it to you then it's yours. Even Judge Judy will tell you that. Things you know are his can be put in a trash bag with a note on it. Tell him you're packing up his things and leaving it on your porch. He should pick it up right away. If he doesn't show up, you've already got the stuff in trash bags, now all you have to do is walk it to the curb on trash day.
2006-09-14 06:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't return his belonging and he decides to take you to small claims court, you will lose a lot of money, depending on the value of his things. It would be foolish to destroy his stuff, unless you really just want to waste your own money paying for it.
Whatever he gave you as a gift is yours, not his. If you want to throw that stuff in the garbage disposal, burn it, let your dog digest or pee on it, you should feel free. It's entirely up to you what you do with your own stuff.
2006-09-14 05:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Candidus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gave you this items, then you can decide whether or not you want to keep any of them. However, give him his stuff back. Just because you guys split doesn't mean you have to be spiteful. Be the bigger person.
2006-09-14 06:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i'll keep it for the memories.
though there might be sad memories that happened in the relationship, i'm sure ur relationship was good while it last.
ok unless he cheated on u. burn everything of his but keep watever he gave u as a gift. u can keep it for memories or u can sell it or u can give it away.
2006-09-14 05:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut everything up into little pieces and send them back to him 1 by 1. The things you can't cut up...sell them and go on vacation!
2006-09-14 15:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by stacilynn26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is depends..if you broke nicely with him then why dont you just keep it in the save place as a memories in you life.there must be a great and good memories between you and him..BUT if you think he broke your heart really..you better thrw it away or burn it..thats all!!
2006-09-14 05:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to a charity shop
2006-09-14 05:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you parted friendly give them back but if he offended you in anyway throw it out. oh keep group two
2006-09-14 05:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by lost one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋