I just found out from history button on com, him looking at online porn and there was what i found out from detectives what they call legal (these r children) on a few of them) and am devestated, i just asked him sunday night if he looked at porn and he said no. what i found was really scary cause i have two girls that aint his and we have a daughter. after over two years, i have done everything for him, didn't cheat, didn't llie, tried to lose weight when i only weigh 125 and tried to do what ever i could to make him happy. Now this is what happens. Maybe i really wasn't good enough for him. i really tried to make our family work. now i don't know what to do.
2006-09-13 21:52:46 · 3 answers · asked by crazy_in_head03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey take it from been there done that..the only thing you can do now is to sit him down and tell him its the computer or you..some people have problems with sex and no matter what they do they wont change,,this doesn't mean hes thinking of doing any thing illegal or immoral,but for your own piece of mind you need to talk to him.If he wont give up the computer for you and his family then you have a hard road a head of you you will have to decide to stay or go but know this if hes looking a kids I wouldn't leave my daughter home alone with him ever and Id know from every minute of everyday where he was in that house can you do that??? If not then think of your kids and remove him before its to late..talk to them and let them know you think hes been acting strange see if they have noticed anything but don't put words into their mouths let them tell you..Good Luck and God Bless You like I said been there done that,,now I know we are safe.
2006-09-13 23:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by enoughmichele04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to educate your daughters regarding this and forget about the findings. talk to him and know his intentions and do accordingly. No more detective work. You will loose your peace if you follow. Accept that he is that type of person try to love him more . You will have your family work.
2006-09-13 22:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have found better in the first place. If what he does make you worry for your children then do something about it.
2006-09-13 21:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋