we are busy loosing each other and i need help i don't want to loose him i want us to fall in love again but i don't know how to
2006-09-13 21:52:08 · 11 answers · asked by sweet - angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make time to be together, show him you love him, hold his hand in public or private, watch a movie together, take a bath or shower together, get out of the house and spend time together, go out to eat, take a walk around the neighborhood, go on a vacation, write him a love letter. Do the stuff you used to do with him before you got married. All these ideas do work, sometimes they can take more effort but the time it takes to do all this makes it all worth while. Oh, and one more important thing that a lot of marriages are missing: COMMUNICATION Do NOT let this important ingredient slip out of your marriage. If I had only communicated better with my wife we might have avoided our rough patch. Don't make the same mistake. I wish you and yours many years of happiness and health.
2006-09-13 21:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by zekemilli4 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you tell him how you feel. My husband and i go through the same thing from time to time. We tell each other how we honestly feel , then to keep the flame alive we make efforts to spend quality time each week. For instance on Saturdays we go to the movies and out to eat or to the beach for a long walk. We also greatly enjoy exercising together now. Once a month (or more if you canaffoord it ) go to a nice candle-lit romantic restaurant and wear something elegent. He will love it and you will love the way he looks at you again.
But remeber, don't spend too much time together, as it can wear on your nerves and make you drift further apart. For most couples 30 minutes of talking a day and one day on teh weekend is sufficient time. But each couple is different.
2006-09-14 04:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear lady, first you find out what is your husband. As you know there will be a lot of bad things in him. But there will be a lot of good things also in him. So try to find out all the good things in him and forgive about the bad things in him. Appreciate his good things. You love him in a way that you want loved by him. The only way to keep the husband with you is that love. Love him without looking anything else. love love and love.
If you love him like this he never will be able to discard your love. Automatically the hatred will take a U turn and you will find love there.
2006-09-14 06:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by safetyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not telling you this to be a smart ***. But I will tell you what helps me. And this is no joke. I do it every month. I buy a cosmo magazine. This magazine, has tips and tricks to keep your relationship on track. Neat little tricks for the bedroom, neat little tips on how to boost a mans ego. (This months edition has it) And quite honestly, I used their tips last night on getting him to propose, and it worked :-) Sounds like you still really love him, question would be how much does he still love you? I really do hope that things work out for you. All is easier said than done. Love is tough work.
2006-09-14 08:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mother of One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.baby make sure everything is in order, the house is clean, the kids are okay. then you make some plan so you and him can have some quiet time. talk ask him what he expects from you and what can you do to make it better. talk to each other, men like lots of attention. make sure his needs are being met. suprize him with extra sex. while he is sleep, when it is time for him to wake up, wake him up by sucking his d___. kiss him, rub him from is head to his feet with lotion. fix your self up. get a new hair style. when you met him it was something that you did that really turned him on continue to do that. keep me up-dated on whats going on, okay.
2006-09-14 05:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by sweet sexy san 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all salutes to the one who really have feelings to patch up again.
Any way please understand the feelings of ur partner deeply .
Give time to listen him more and pateincely listen him.Never get into arguments with him when he is in mode of communicating things to you especially when he is telling you about ur mistakes.
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2006-09-14 05:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to do the things you did when you fell in love. Remember it takes two to make things work. Don't be afraid to try new things TOGETHER.
2006-09-14 04:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After two bad and long relationships, one a marriage I still don't know. You both need to want it. Not just you, ask him what he really wants.
2006-09-14 04:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_in_head03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what he is feeling. If you don't know what he wants you might need to get counsellings.
Communication and patients
Good Luck
2006-09-14 04:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about preparing a surprise picnic indoors? with all the romantic stuff like candlelights, wine and soft jazz music.be creative as you can get.
2006-09-14 05:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by witsencharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋