1) Girls sympathise me a lot (they think I am handsome).
2) I'm a nerd. I prefer reading in a library over going out for some parties --- also, I am very successful in school and interested in science.
3) I am 15 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. (Not because I couldn't find one, but because I intend to be only with someone I truly love, which still hasn't happened.
4) I feel more comfortable while with adults then while with the boys of my age.
5) I have a couple of good friends.
When I grow up, I want to start a family, marry the women I love and have kids. Are my chances reduced??
2006-09-13 21:36:09 · 10 answers · asked by ciomlol 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You are very mature and have some wonderful goals. I'm very confident that you will meet a girl with similiar goals. There is no rush--you are very young. Good luck!
2006-09-13 21:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem pretty grown up! More mature than people your age, hence why you feel more at ease with older people. Why call yourself a nerd because you prefer reading in a library than go to parties? I think you got the right idea there!
As for you choice not to have a g/f until you meet someone you really love, want to marry and have children with i would say this was an excellent choice! Give it a few years and those who criticize you now will gladly admit to you they were wrong! Wish they had been more like you!
2006-09-14 05:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things to remember:
1. There is someone for everyone out there. You'll find yours, if you don't give up looking.
2. You sound like a perfectly normal young man by asking these very good questions. Read on.
You have to try many different kinds of fruit to learn what you like and what you dislike. Finding a mate is very similar. You need to get to know lots of girls before you even know what to look for in a major relationship. You need experience to make an informed choice. Date around! You're only 15 - don't worry about making mistakes. You have to burn to learn. It can take years to find the right one, but it will be worth it! Hiding behind the door because of some lofty dream is gonna leave you left out.
Besides, dude, being nerdy is cool these days, right?
Live long and prosper.
2006-09-14 04:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by MaqAtak 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are my dream guy :)
Sadly too young for me. If you have a dream you need to believe in it and work for it. No one can promise the future to you. But a good foundation is half the battle so I say you should build it now.
2006-09-14 04:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ttraveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you decide that you prefer men - or have your coconuts cut off... I think your chances are good.
2006-09-14 04:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tish-a-licious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set your goals to high and they can never be reached... set your goals to low and you'll end up picking them up. find your happy medium thats always a good place to start.
2006-09-14 04:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by wicked jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to marry the "women" you "love"? What are you a polygomist.
2006-09-14 04:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by masterwitchphd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a long time ago I was very much like you.
Now when you start dating don't fall for the first *****, you have a right to be choosy.
2006-09-14 04:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a good kid.
You think what is best for you.
It is not so with many kids.
2006-09-14 04:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by SKG R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know
2006-09-14 04:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋