He claims he loves me then why is he still in touch with her. Is there any possibility that he is still attracted towards her? Where do i stand in all this?
2006-09-13 21:21:15 · 22 answers · asked by mark m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not all exes hate each other. You need to chill out and talk to the person about it.
2006-09-13 21:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm still friends with my ex but that doesn't mean that I love him or want to be with him... in rare instances 2 mature people can maintain a friendship even when a romantic relationship has failed. The question is are you secure enough to deal with it? If this is a big issue for you then you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel. Maybe he can calm your feelings about it... it's gotta make you feel better than people on Yahoo Answers!
2006-09-13 21:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After going out and breaking up with someone it does not mean that you have to be enemies or do not keep intouch. They could have been very good friends and made a mutual decision to stop dating. So stop being paranoid and appreciate the fact that at least he is not doing this behind your back. His ex is married for crying out loud.
2006-09-13 22:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry to much. I am married and still talk to my ex-wife. In fact we get along better than when we were married. I would never have her as a wife or have "relations" with her again but I do care about her and her life and wish her the best.
2006-09-13 21:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by konala 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing necessarily wrong with this. Breakups can be amicable, and they may just be good friends still.
I'm not saying that's necessarily the case, but you should be open to the possibility. Don't reflexively ask him to give up his friends; jealousy is NOT attractive; indeed, it's one of the surest ways of driving him away.
If he isn't trustworthy, you should be able to tell that. If he is, then you should trust him.
You make the call.
2006-09-13 21:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and attraction maybe possible between them.there is no doubt.
If he says he loves you he should have proved it by avoiding talking to her which he won't &getting u upset(i think these are excuses),.you have become a sandwich in between ur husband and his ex.
Your case sounds similiar as Prince Charles with Camila and princess Diana.
2006-09-13 21:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will always have a place for her in his heart otherwise they won't still be in touch. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about it and if he cares about you he will respect you by breaking all contact with the past and concentrate on the future.
2006-09-13 21:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We never quite "get over" those we loved in the past. Sometimes you can keep a platonic relationship with someone you were in love with. Don't trust him alone with her though. we men are terrible when it comes to monogamy!! The love can be gone forever, but one look at that booty in tight jeans just screws us all up!!
2006-09-13 21:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by jsmittyditty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is not over her......i had the same thing happen to me and i ended up breaking up with him cuz he couldn't get over her....you need to have a serious talk about your relationship and where you stand! Good luck
2006-09-13 21:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only keep in touch with people you care about.
it may not mean he is in love with her though. I'm sure u keep in touch with ex-crushes or bf and it don't mean a thing
2006-09-13 21:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋