I an dating this boy for the 3rd time and i don't know what to do because he likes me a lot but then like when we weren't going out then he was very cool, but when he ask me out and then i said yes but he turns into a totally shy person, and i don't like it i don't wanna hurt him but i am not happy with him, and plus we have this project that we suppose to do it together and i'm scared that if i break up with him then everything would be so mess up... so can you please help me what should i do?????
2006-09-13 21:09:34 · 9 answers · asked by JAJA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why dont you just confront him with this
HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY
If you cant even talk with em why are u still with him
AGAIN
Man!
2006-09-13 21:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there ok so this is the third time you have gone out with this boy .......didnt you realise the first 2 times how shy that he is .......it seems that he is under a lot of pressure to have a girl friend and now that youre seeing each other hes having panic attacks ,can i ask why you went out with him ?? could it be thatyou can say that you have a b/f why dont you sitdown and start talking and do thisproject together ,and just see where this relationship goes and if you decide to split up be this a lesson sweetheart start seeing a b/f for the reasons that you really like him and not for the reason of adleast im not left out .....as i expect that this is .....you take care xx
2006-09-13 21:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gal if u know tt u r not gonna be happy wif him why bother to go into the r'ship for the 3rd time? twice is more than enuff....
well i think u shld have a talk wif him if u still wanna be with him....tell him ur feelings and ask why does behave tt way when u both r togather!
if u wanna break off and dun want to hurt his feelings i suggest u do it after the project the both of u have to settle.....otherwise i duno if he can take the blow....but u gotta do it once and forall (no offence) otherwise u be like kinda dragging the whole r'ship....and its not ez and u wun feel gd....
good luck
2006-09-13 21:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First help him to come out from his shy nature, like express ur feelings to him that he must know how much u like him , and spend more time with him, it may help u in future (if u dont like this answer i'm sorry)
2006-09-13 21:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by AMBIKA N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish the project first
then break up with him
but you two have to talk,tell him what you liked him at first
maybe he will change and things will be fine.
2006-09-13 21:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by KAREN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. But wait until the project is finished!!!
2006-09-13 21:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get through the project. Ask him what the hell? Tell him what is on your mind. You can do it.
2006-09-13 21:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple choose between your hapiness and the project. Which do you require/need more?
2006-09-13 22:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i said it before and i'll say it again anal sex
2006-09-13 21:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋