If communication is so important in a marriage, why women talk bad about thier husband behind his back, why do the write hateful stuff about them in journals and diaries. I mean if your unhappy with your spouse why not tell them and try to work them out versus hiding it from him?
2006-09-13 21:01:09 · 9 answers · asked by f119pw100turbofan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it is some times difficult for women to tell men that they are unhappy because most times the man will turn it around and make it the woman fault as to why she is not happy.
2006-09-13 21:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by konala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe wives do this self-censorship b/c they KNOW they won't be listened to. The fact that they write diaries already show that they have given up on communicating to their significant other what's hurting them. Diaries are an outlet.
2006-09-13 21:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a wife loves her husband, she may feel upset with him or angry sometimes and need to vent but not feel that it is important enough to hurt his feelings or pick a fight over.
2006-09-13 21:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lucrecia2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's right,one should be so honest with his/her partner instead of writing in diaries or talking behind their backs...
2006-09-13 21:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by Oma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no such problems. I always tell him what I really think and feel, both goods and bads.
2006-09-13 21:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r right.its a communication gap.
2006-09-13 21:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all marriages have good communication thats why that happens.
2006-09-14 01:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife doesn't talk bad behind my back.
2006-09-13 22:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Know.
2006-09-13 21:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋