My Son told me he was gay?

Question

BUT I CANNOT STAND PEOPLE LIKE YOU, HOW DO I CHANGE HIS MIND ABOUT HELL AND BRIMSTONE?

NEVER, THE SODOMITES SHALL INHERIT NOTHING YOU HEAR ME? NOTHING.

KaiKai, your parents are exactly right. You think you’re so normal why the hell are you hanging around in the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered section on yahoo answers you sadistic freak.

Aquadude: I never said I was God and I will never, NEVER choose yours as a best answer. You dirty prick.

Tab H: DNA has nothing to do with genetics you ignorant fool. I mean if an animal developed homosexuality it would not reproduce therefore it’s f*aggot gene would be selected out of the gene pool in a snap. You ignorant bastard.

Augusta B: I admit I have been writing stupid questions and answers but this on IS true. How about from now on I put a % sign in questions that are true that I write. Then you can tell true from lie.

pussycat: If my son continues on his road to hell I will never have a good relationship with him. I don’t mind loving relationships between men provided they are father and son and the son isn’t gay.

tinaturne...: I will never accept him, you hear me?

Q~T: I don’t care if he didn’t choose to be infected by Satan. He must fight until he can overcome his evil infection.

Dee H: Maybe that’s a sign of things to come. Please revert from your sinful ways. PLEASE.

ga man: YOU MAKE ME SICK. YOU ARE NOTHING LIKE US, YOU HEAR ME? NOTHING.

tizzy_em8...: He isn’t the same person. He wasn’t gay when he was born, he shouldn’t be gay now.

Hank32: I will not accept that he is gay and I will try and change it until the day I die. But, I agree with you. I will not talk abusively to him about ‘it’.

livachic2...: God doesn’t create anyone gay. Satan infects them and makes them gay.

☺Everybod... still loves Chris!♥▼©: Touché, very funny reviewing my old answers. But I am telling the truth on this.

Samm: I understand you may have begrudgingly accepted the fact but I can’t, that something I produced could be so heinously evil.

manuel: Yes he is, as different as you can get. There’s a galaxy of difference between us now.

crowbird_...: NEVER, NEVER EVER EVER. YOU GO STRAIGHT TO HELL. THE SODOMITES WERE DESTROYED FOR THEIR SINS. THEY DESERVED WHAT THEY GOT.

Stephanie N: Finally someone who agrees with me. He’s off to the Dr. tomorrow and I’ve started lacing his food and drink with testosterone tablets. That’ll set him straight.

Kim Marie: I’d rather myself die of cancer than my son go to hell for being gay.

cub6265: PFLAG makes me SICK. UTTERLY SICK. THAT A GAY CHARITY SHOULD HAVE MONEY DONATED TO THEM WHEN IT COULD GO TO World Vision or WWF. F*U*C*K YOU.

Evan: I will and I can, I’m sure the right chemicals would change a red apple to green.

akahiro_1...: Believe me, if only he did that, ahh, that would be bliss. That he should not be a f*aggot would make my very existence complete.

I’m sick of you f*a*ggots quoting Our Lord Jesus Christ. You are not worthy to even speak of him.

Answer 1

Do you have a favorite food? What color are your eyes? Can you change your mind about those things? NO! Likewise for your son. You must learn to accept him and love him for who and what he is. That is the curse of parenthood.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Where does this hate come from. you as a mother do not understand that your parenting was some of the cause that your son had chose to be gay. You never was a mom he could talk to. Maybe if you would have been more attentive to your son he would have asked you when he had questions about his sexuality and would not have experimented that time that helped him make such the choice to be gay. So if you want to hate something, hate what you was a part of causing,repent and then ask Jesus Christ to help you love your son and help him make a choice that is only for the will of God Almighty and not your will mom.Not just his either, but the will of his is to do the will of God Almighty. Then let Jesus Christ work in both of your lives.

Answer 3

If you think you can battle your way into justification with me, pull out your Bible. Go beyond the verses and read the entire chapter. I hate to blame hate on education, but you're very off center, no matter how you look at it.
Now, if you think you've got your ducks in a row, send me your scriptures that sends queers to hell, but also I want you to explain this; the author, the history, the context, and the hebrew interpretation...if you can't do that, don't expect the ignorant King James to give you all the answers....leading me to this - read about King James and THEN preach your gospel. I graduated with my M.Div. through the United Church of Chirst, I can assure you I know the Bible.

TO EVERYONE ELSE IN HERE- don't pay this any mind, I don't really believe it to be genuine. However, anyone who cannot except their child unconditionally is not worthy of that childs love. I forecast that this child will grow up and move and not ever return to such ignorance. What's more, this is my story. My mom and dad were just like this, HELL, FIRE, and BRIMSTONE. I never call, never visit, and really don't give a flip about either one or their fundamentalist (idealistic) hocuspocus.

If your child is under 18, then you should probably give custody to someone else - give him to the state for that matter... they will provide for him better that you can. If he's over 18, don't worry your pretty little head about it any longer.......worry about yourself getting right with Jesus, you've got a lot of work sweetheart.
Kind Regards, CB

Answer 4

Response: I will quote whatever books i feel like and i never said i identified as a homosexual. Also, according to the book you are advertising, "All have sinced and fallen short of the glory of God." which means if i'm not worthy to quote scriptures, neither are you.

homosexuals and transexuals are two different things. If the person is a transexual, the only thing testosterone will do will affect the appearance of the body, more body hair, deepen voice, sweat more, etc.

That person's father obviously doesn't know very much about biology, gender, or human sexuality. *sigh*

Think about it, the greeks practiced cultural homosexuality. It was a very masculine thing. The feminization of gay men has more to do with [gay] cultural beauty standards.

I would like to add, violence and sexual agression are cultural problems, not testosterone problems. the Gerai people of the Dynak have no occurences of rape because their cultural beliefs about bodies and community.

1) Testosterone does not create aggression.

2) Aggression can increase levels of testosterone.

3) Testosterone can exagerate aggression, because testosterone shortens the resting time between action potentials in the stria termina.
For more info on sex, gender, and human social groups visit my gender education community.
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Answer 5

Oh My. I really feel sorry for your son, I mean, God did give us the burden of free will, and my goodness, he's actually using it. What shall we do? Ah yes, I remember. Celebrate. It's HIS life, and not yours. I truly feel sorry for him, I mean no one deserves a Dad like you. You are here judging your own son?! I honestly thought the role of a father was to love and support your child or children... I must've been mistaken.

Tell me, is there a food that you enjoy to eat, yet your son doesn't? I'll use an example. Peas and beans. Say you like beans, but can't stand beans, yet your son loves peas, yet can't stand beans. It's a preference, and that's all it is. It's NOT a death sentence, and your son isn't going to be damned for a preference, afterall, it was God who gave us free will. Oh, and if, in the unlikely event your son does go to hell, which I can assure you won't happen, He'll meet you down there. You're forgetting that it's only God who can judge, and after posting remarks like "I cannot stand people like you..." and "hate"... well, that too is a sin, and if I recall, no one sin is bigger than another, a sin is a sin, and sins are a big no-no.

So, do your son a favour and be a good father, with Lord as your strength and support, you can beat the devil in you.

Good luck to your son. He'll need it with a father like you.

Answer 6

He's still exactly the same person he was before he told you is he not? He's not asking you to jump up on the roof and shout about it all he is asking for is for you to accept it. No matter what you say he cant change being gay and it really is not losing your son over is it?

When i told my mum all she said is fair enough but dont rub it in my face and flaunt the fact your a lesbian what ever makes you happy makes me happy.

You will have a fair better relationship with your son if you just accept he is who he is and nothing will change this. Parents are supposed to love there children unconditionally.

Answer 7

First off you need to open your mind. Forget about your religion. No one chooses to be gay. This is your son. You have always loved him for who he is. Why stop now. He needs you love and support more than anything. You should be proud he had the courage to tell you. Saying things like hell & brimstone is not going to change who he is. That would be like telling you that you are going to hell for breathing or eating. If you believe in God than you know that God is loveing and compassionate. If you harden your heart toward your son, and tell him he's damned for hell; it will only make him turn away. The best thing you can do is just love him. You may not agree with his lifestyle, but it's his life not yours. You can't make people change who they are.

Answer 8

Dear Sheriff

If you are for real, which I somehow doubt after reading your profile and seen your answers, I would advise you and your son to go a counsellor experienced in family relationships.
Your son is gay and unless you want him to kill himself you are going to have accept that. Talking to each other via a neutral third person may be a way to build a bridge between you two.

By the way when was the last time you had your prostate examined. High testorone is an indicator for prostate disorders.

Answer 9

Is your son any different than the 5 minutes before he told you? No. So, now you don't want to have anything to do with him? If so,you love your ideas more than you love your son. Gay teens have a higher suicide rate than straight people. It is a feeling and an emotion. This world sure is crazy and hateful sometimes. Be a parent and give support. Your son (if he is young) could learn a lot from you. You say-I cannot stand people like you. Are you telling this to gay people on y!a? or the people who are going to answer your question?

Answer 10

Several years ago my daughter, it took me 12 long years to have her, left her husband and brought her daughter back home.

All of this after telling me she was gay and couldn't stay with him any more. She was totally distraught but couldn't stay in a situation and be miserable for the rest of her life. I supported her, no matter how difficult it was.

It sounds like your sons confession is very recent? Am I right? Just breath in an out and as time goes by the stress, strain and confusion will clear up. The first cut is the worst.

Just remember in life, we generally don't care about someone elses sex life and frankly they don't care about ours. So if you get past that part. You will get back to loving your son as you always have. You don't want him to be miserable for his entire life, do you?

With my daughter, we are four years into the new part of her life. She has a partner and her husband has adjusted to the situation and is now dating. The are still excellent parents to their daughter. So amazingly enough things are running very smoothly.

Recently I realized we are a little like the Friends TV show situation, where Ross' ex wife left him for a woman. They then developed a mutually agreeable relationship to raise their son.

Life is challenging and I don't pretend to understand the whys of what is going on, but I do know that we are all Gods children and HE does have a plan. He just hasn't shared it with us yet.

GOD BLESS YOU, and it will get easier with time.

Answer 11

What you SHOULD do is put down your bible and listen to your son! Him being gay does not make him a bad person or less of a person. He can have loving relationship with a man just as much as he could with a woman. You won't be able to change his mind....but you will lose him. If you pressure him and express your anger towards his lifestyle...you and your son will not have a good relationship.

Accept him and love him how he is.