why would my husband ask me to have s.e.x with a girl for him to watch if he is not interested in having s.e.x. with her, is that normal cause i'm not bi
2006-09-13 20:43:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who gives a fvck
2006-09-13 20:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Pauline 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nice avatar!
you know how guys are. Guys have a hard time realizing fantasies are just fantasies. not necessarily reality or what will happen.
Besides if you're going to have a name like "kinky girl" you have to be prepared to back it up.
ask him for the same thing. tell him you want to see him and another guy go down on each other. say "i wanna see your heads bobbin' like two oils well pumps!" be sure to mention that you want to see him choke and gag on the other guys "man milk" or maybe say: you want to see the other guy mount him from behind, so you can watch their nads slap into each others.
after saying this, ask him what he thinks of that notion. if he is disgusted, say "now you know how I fell"
2006-09-13 21:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Pervo Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may want to see this happen because he's like every other man who's honest---he luvs the idea of seeing two women together! Or, he may have ulterior motives and want to get involved himself. The real point is, if it makes you feel uncomfortable, then TELL HIM! Communication is the key sweetheart, if you don't say anything he'll never know. We guys have yet to master the mind reading thing!
2006-09-13 21:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats freaky and I would think twice about him. Obviously he is into it and yes,he probably wouldn't be just a spectator. If your sex life is becoming dull there are many ways to liven it up before trying out a 3rd party. If my boyfriend asked me to do that,that'd put me right off him and I wouldn't trust him either. Once something like that is in his head........its there. If you know what I mean. I hope this works out for you. Take care.x.
2006-09-13 20:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is exploring but you have to be careful it does not get out of hand.
The best sex is when both partners are enjoing it.
There is nothing wrong with asking but if you decline he should understand and drop the question.
If you do not want to do it put these questions to him:
Would you perform with another man for me?
Supposing I like it so much I prefer sex with her to you?
2006-09-13 20:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by philipscottbrooks 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No- it is however a sign that he doesn't think very highly of you or your body. Any guy who is asking his girlfriend that is essentially telling you that he is doesn't value you or your relationship... But in the end it is up to you. It sounds like he is going to ask u to do it and then if you do, he will think differently of you....
2006-09-13 20:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men! They are never satisfied. No I don't think he wants to cheat, just wants to try something different. Suggest something else like mabey a porn with two women in it.
2006-09-13 21:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may not want to have sex with the othe girl. It may just be a fantasy of his to watch two girls have sex. If you're not comfortable with it, tell him no. Ask him why he wants you to do this.
2006-09-13 20:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lucrecia2001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Strange woman. Why would you call youself Kinky girl, and then go all prudish.
Seriously if he loves you and you really arn't comfortable, tell him so. And then ask him not to ask you again.
2006-09-16 08:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Vulture38 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, I think men like the idea of girl on girl. I wouldn't even go there.
2006-09-13 23:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋