friends should b understanding.....
2006-09-13 20:05:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, try not to think dat ur friends will never be ur true friends. try to get closer to some of dem. share more things wit dem. actually, all friends should be understanding no matter what. friends r those who noes u inside out. who supports u no matter how stupid ur idea was (coz da idea is not impossible). dey r da ones u can trust. dey r da ones u cn always look up 4 wen u have no one. dats friends. if u wanna have a true friend, be one to someone 1st. :)
2006-09-13 20:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by rufiogerl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello Andy,
Many of us, at one time or another, have wondered about having a real True Friend, often at the point when someone in our lives who we thought was True, instead turned-out to be False. In my own case, what I would do is:
First of all, be the Very Best Kind of Friend you can be, to the people you already know. This does not have to take the form of big gestures; it might be simply to be a Good Listener when someone needs an ear.
Next, it's also very important to Like Yourself. We live in a society of low self-esteem, so try and concentrate on the Positives: the things you do well, the things that make you feel proud, that cause you to smile. (Trust me, this works-!) By doing this, your own self-image will improve, even if it's already reasonably positive.
Finally, and most importantly, Be the Kind of Friend that you yourself would want-! Concentrate on just what you value in a friend, and then BECOME that friend. This should attract to you the sorts of friends you would like to have, but it will also cause a change among the people you already know, in that they will see the positive changes in you, and this may well change their behavior towards you for the better.
Doing all this creates a positive aura around you: really positive energy, in that you're trying to be selfless, concentrating only on the other person. This positive energy will attract people to you, and hopefully the right kind of people, too. Even when not, keep applying the same behavior and watch how things change.
Once you've been doing these three things for awhile, it will all become second-nature, and pretty soon you'll no longer even be aware that you're doing them. Try it, and see-!
2006-09-14 03:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by MatthieuDF 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is someone to laugh, cry and feel with.
They are an inspiration, A Person who will lend a helping hand.
Although friends may not be forever, And they may not be together in the end, the memories of a true friendship will
last for eternity.
A friend is someone who will hold a piece of a you in their heart.
Someone with whom you share a smile, Someone to brighten up your day.
What makes someone a friend, and not just another person in your life?
Is by saying the Love of your friendship will stay true forever.
2006-09-14 03:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rahul 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, Andy I would like to be your friend. Just drop me an email. =))) Secondly, don't be downhearted. I was lonely and I didn't meet anyone true. It is hard to understand why people behave the way they are, or they make you think they don't like you.
If you are sincere, people who are likeminded will like you. Some people, from my own experience, are so hurt they can't let anyone be close! I have buds who feel insecure, hurt, scared, very lonely (but damned if they admit it). These poor pple lost friends and many family to accidents and illnesses.
Hard to see where they are coming from, unless you can walk in their shoes. People from complicated backgrounds tend to lash out with their armor and take longer to trust, to let down their guard. They need to protect themselves.
Out of this will come the strength, for it is in crisis that the human soul will emerge victorious! Believe in your own self, trust in whichever higher power, nature. think of this (dunno the exact words but it is comforting:
God please grant me the serenity to accept what I cannot change, to do the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
Catherine
2006-09-14 04:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Fenrispro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be or do the same what all u expect from a friend. Then u will have a true friend.
2006-09-14 03:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by m.shahila m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start accepting friends as they are rather than expecting them to change for you. Then you might get a true and honest friend. And if the friends expect you to change then may be they are not worth your friendship.
2006-09-14 06:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Bacti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need a true friend also I have lots of friends but I cant trust to tell them anything and sometimes I feel all alone....I know how you feel.......
2006-09-14 03:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends are made of many acts, and lost by only one...friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together.To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others,use your heart!
2006-09-14 03:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by melanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be a true friend first
2006-09-14 03:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Freddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must be having some friends choose any one and spendmore time with him or her as the time moves on you will earn a true friend
2006-09-14 03:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by rishi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋