2006-09-13 20:00:39 · 13 answers · asked by robertapdixon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IF SOMEONE HAS BROKEN UP WITH YOU--YOU NEED TO HAVE ENOUGH PRIDE TO GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. THEY HAD A REASON TO BREAK UP AND YOU DONT WANT OR NEED TO BEG FOR THEM TO COME BACK.
2006-09-13 20:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by horsysue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question is why did you break up and was it mutual?
Can you change the relationship so that the reason you broke up doesn't come back into the relationship again, if you do get back together?
If the relationship will remain the same and cannot be changed, you should not get back together because you will only end up breaking up again.
If you can change the relationship, so contact your boyfriend and explain how it will be different this time and you would like to give the relationship a second chance, if he agrees.
2006-09-14 08:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will have to accept the fact that a good relationship is made up of 2 people who both feel the same way towards each other. if you work your way towards reconciling with him and getting him back, you probably might be able to, but will you really be happy and for how long will it last? if your break-up was a decision that you both made, don't forget that he was part of that decision. for him/her to agree to the break-up meant that he may not also feel that things are working out for both of you. you could probably send the message that you are interested or entertaining the idea of getting back with him/her, but be ready for the consequences.
2006-09-14 03:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by marisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know why that preson broke up with you, find the reason, fixed it, the reason always is start with a cause, and try what brought you guys together in the first place.
2006-09-14 03:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Martian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing really. You can't get him back.The only thing you have control over now is your emotions. So take a hold on them, and listen to your close friends. They can see things more clearly than you now.
2006-09-14 03:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been through this countless of times. well, put all ur ego aside. ask urself. "do u love that person?". if yes, den go n call him/her n sk him/her whether he/she loves u. oh yes. dun hurry to ask this question to the other party. if the love remains, it'll stay. ego must never be in the way. all the best!
2006-09-14 03:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by rufiogerl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u even want to get back to that person who has left u.even oif u manage to get back then also the problems wud keep cropping up.that person wil take u for granted bcoz he/she mgt thnk that he/she mgt get back to u anytime they want and wud treat u like a shut
2006-09-14 03:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider what changed. If you're satisfied with your answer to yur question then ; ask him. Let him retain a warm glow from an encounter with you.
2006-09-14 03:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the last time, ask him to stay and to give you another chance.
or go away and dont ever see him anymore
2006-09-14 03:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by MYKYL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play mind games with each other and everyone around you until nobody will want either one of you ----then youll be stuck with each other forever
2006-09-14 03:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋