hi everyone,i broked up with my ex bf about 3months ago because he wuz not treating me like he suppose to and i met up with my long time friend.i will admit that i used my friend to get over my bf and i srarted feelin him,i mean he is soo good to me and my 2 kids.anyway,my ex bf calls me all the time and saying things like he miss me and so forth.he told me that he does have a friend ,but still loves me.i don't want to get back with him cause i don't want to hurt my friend that i have now.yes i have feelins for my friend and cares for him deeply.i don't know,could some one help me out
2006-09-13 19:04:15 · 9 answers · asked by sonya35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like a case of "the grass is greener one the other side"
Maybe you should drop them both.
Find out who you are, and what you like?
Good luck to you.
2006-09-13 19:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you broke up with your ex because he was not treating you the way he was supposed to treat you. Now you have a relationship with a man who is good to you and your 2 children. So what is your dilemma? Why would you leave the good man and return to the one who didn't treat you well and now is cheating emotionally with you while involved with his "friend."
This is why men call some women chicken heads! Wise up!
2006-09-14 02:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor, stay with the one who treats you good. If I can do some good here, Ill say that, because I see so many good guys get passed over in favor of assholes who don't deserve the girls that these other guys would do anything for. Make the right choice
2006-09-14 02:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by sTRIKER 81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave your ex alone. You think he will change.Think about how he treated you in the past. He still seeing someone else. A good man is hard to find. Your friend treats you and your kids good.
2006-09-14 02:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you ex how you feel and that you are not interested. Do not make a lot of contact with him or he may read that the wrong way. So just tell him and keep your distance. Good Luck
2006-09-14 02:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is your ex for a reason, therefore it should probably stay that way. sounds like you're already doing what's best for yourself. you're wise to move on. good luck
2006-09-14 02:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by jbslass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex didn't treat you well. Give him the flick.
2006-09-14 02:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you care 4 ur ex too .. you should choose
2006-09-14 02:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please listen to a song called: "There You Go" by Pink.
2006-09-14 02:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by Instant Justice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋