2006-09-13 18:42:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No...no reason for blaming God because from the start , when we love we have to realize that there is always a risk of losing the one we love either by not being loved in return, by death or other means. As Thomas A'Kempis said, whoever loves much, does much so when we truly love we have no misgivings, we give our best shot, we give even more than 100% of our effort, time and giving of oneself.....give, give and give. It is very difficult but there are no regrets as love seeks the happiness and benefit of the beloved even to the point of letting him/her go........
In C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves, Harcourt, Brace & World, Inc., 1960, p.169.
To love at all is to be venerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin or your selfishness. But in that casket--safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable...The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers...of love is Hell.
In summary, when we love we have to be prepared to be hurt, to depart if that will bring profit, happiness, contentment or gain for the person we love.....Love is a costly thing, isn't it?
2006-09-13 20:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere in the middle of one relationship struggle, I recall literally slamming the receiver of the phone to the base and throwing them both across the room and shouting, "And you are supposed to be a loving God!" Being a Christian and having a fairly good knowledge of the books of the bible, I got an immediate urge to sit and read the book of Job all the way through. The message was basically that I am just a person and it was not mine to question Him (God). The whole struggle I was in was about building character. It's been 7 years and I've got to say that relationship, as painful as it was, taught me alot. I am eternally grateful God did not strike me down.
2006-09-13 18:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by mcgeheec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame God, He loves all of us. It is normal that you say this, and think it. Look at the people who've supported you, didn't He give you these gifts? Treasure yourself, everyday u wake up it is a nice new day.
Forgive and let go of the losses, hold them tight and it pains you. One day you'll be happy again. Keep that door open.
2006-09-13 21:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Fenrispro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...
no matter what the reason behind it instead of holding grievances, I thank God for it... He knows everything... and I know that whatever He has in mind will always be for our own good...
most of the time people tend to do that because we see the situation the way we want to see it not the way we should and must see it... most of the time we are blinded with our anger...
2006-09-13 18:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've lost myself a friend who i call brother in a freak accident, and yes i hated both god and humanity for the death of my brother and i've swear that i'll destroy them all one way or the other even if i've to sold my loyalty to Luficer to do so.
but as time passes through the time, my brother memories comes in my mind of the wish and dream he've for the world and my sense of conscious of his need and not my angst.
though i never break the truce i've make earlier with Lucifer, i've make a promise to my brother that i'll give humanity a chance to change, and i've try to understand the faith and teaching of gods.
as there this word that i'll use every seconds i felt pain and sorrow;
"though we may be far apart by soul but we are always close as one in heart".
2006-09-14 00:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by marxice21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i held god very close i did. it was my first love n i couldnt understand why he took him away. i thought god was shutting all the doors but eventually a window opened and im now with the love of my life.
everything happens for a reason. really
2006-09-13 18:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if anyone says they have not ever been angry with God, they are lying..... everyone has gone thru it..... and God knows we really do not mean it.... well, most of us dont.... if the answer is not right in front of us, we as people have to lay blame some where, so we go to the top..... God...... normal and natural.... but , God forgives and loves us anyway..... and he knows we are just venting........ God bless
2006-09-13 18:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because the break-up was due to the evilness or neurosis or selfishness or whatever, of my ex, not of God.
2006-09-13 18:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cause everything happens for a reason
2006-09-13 19:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL ME HOW OFTEN YOU REMEMBERED GOD WHEN YOU LOVED WHY NOW WHEN YOU'VE LOST
2006-09-13 18:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋