my husband is always nagging me that he has to go to sleep early because he has to get up early to work the next day @ 3 am....! but when he goes out with other poeple other than me he stays up til 12 even dough he has to get up 3 hrs later? it makes me so mad.
2006-09-13 18:08:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i talk to him about it and he just denies it ! like a total jerk , he only replies " no i dont" dont lie, he does it to cut me off.
2006-09-13 18:13:41 · update #1
the next time he comes in at 12 be there and awake and tell him he has no reason to give you an excuse about getting up early when you want him to go out with you cause if he can come in late with other people he can do it with you and i know you said you tried this before but the point is to point things out when they happen that way the other person can't say its a lie but if he still comes up with another lame excuse then i don't think he is out with friends its another woman and if thats the case he is no good and he doesn't deserve you.
2006-09-13 21:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is like many men with friends. I was like that and still like that.
I will for others first before i even think about doing or going someplace with my wife or family for that matter.
i would consider that me time.
I suggest you try some smooth tactful moves to go out with him . If he goes out with his buddies he is not running from you because if he wakes up as early as you say and providing for his family let him go out.
Now if he is like this 100% of the time be tactful to get a date.
2006-09-14 01:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by plumbman_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel , and his punishment is waking up 2-3 hours before his job ,well he will be hateing life cause he is so tired,,,,and well that really is not your problem , he is a big boy
who wipes his own ***,,, take it from me don't even trip on the small stuff , its not really worth a fight ,, save your energy so you can laugh at him as he is dragging his *** to work on 2-3 hours of sleep,,,
2006-09-14 01:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by E.M. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a set schedule of some sorts. But there are exceptions to the rule. In other words, it would be important to make the extra time to spend with his wife. I do. : )
Hope this helps
2006-09-14 01:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we work all the time and come home to more demands of our time without giving us any downtime. Tell him to cut loose with his firends on his days off or give him certain nights to do it on only. Also, burn his food when you are mad at him. That gets our attention really quick.
2006-09-14 01:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, he's not your play thing. Seriously you can't expect a man to survive on three hours of sleep a night, night after night.
By the way, do the twins have names?
2006-09-14 01:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah i wouldn't believe that he is cheating. I have the same problem. He is probably just more about his friends. He has his priorities messed up. Can you go out with him? Would he let you?
2006-09-14 01:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is bored with you. You might need to change your approach with being just a wife.
2006-09-14 02:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the club...... men are men and they do it their way........ turn the tables on him...... next time he comes in at that hour, play the music loud and make some noise.... if he ask or yells the *why* at ya.... inform him .... you thought he was up for the night so you just wanted to help him stay awake..... rofl....... God bless
2006-09-14 01:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him to stop cutting you off when talking to him let him know you have feelings as well on this matter. my opion?
2006-09-14 01:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋