TODAY ME AND MY BEST FRIEND TOLD HER OFF CAUSE SHE WAS SAID MY HAIR WAS SOO SHORT AND MY HAIR IS LONGER THEN HERS ME AND MY BESTFRIEND TOLD HER SHE SHOULDN'T BE TALKING ABOUT ANYONES HAIR UNTIL SHE GOT HAIR ALL THE WAY TO HER BUTT AND MY BEST FRIEND TOLD HER SHE CAN'T BE TALKING CAUSE HER HAIR IS NEVER BRUSHED AND HER HAIR IS SHORT TOO I'M GETTING SICK OF HER TELLING ME WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME WHAT SHOULD I DO CAUSE IT'S GOING TO LEAD TO A FIGHT IF I DONT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT I DON'T WANT TO GO TO A TEACHER OR COUNSELOR CAUSE SHE IS GOING TO THINK I'M SCARED OF HER WHICH IM NOT???.
2006-09-13 18:06:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
beat her with a baseball bat throw her in the trunk of your car and drive to the nearest wal-mart and leave her in it go out to dinner and a movie then "forget " to let her out
or you can just ask her why she's doing this
2006-09-13 18:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She must have low self esteem. People that put others down usually only do so because they feel so low themselves (inside). A lot of times it's those people that seem very confident and strong that are so fragile and weak on the inside. They put up this front.
I would take the high road and just walk past her and don't make any eye contact. Just hold your head high, be proud of who you are and DO NOT STOOP TO HER LEVEL!! If she doesn't get a rise out of you she'll lose interest in trying.
Or, if you don't think you can do that - next time she says anything to you just look at her with a puzzled look and say "why are you so interested in me? don't you have a life of your own?"
Good luck
Let me know how it goes.
kmaves@yahoo.com
2006-09-13 18:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one deserves a friend who puts you down! Drop this deadbeat hair insecurity brat and hang with some new people. Don't respond to the nasty things she says, it will probably only keep her going. Sounds like you've already made it known to her how you feel about it so just leave it at that. Good Luck!
2006-09-13 18:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about hair? It grows an you can dye it curl it straighten it and well, I guess hair isn't the real issue. Tell her that your flaws are superficial and wil change but she will always be stupid. She may be doing this just to get your attention. Ignore her and she soon will fade out of your life. Once she sees her efforts to bring you down are futile she will get bored. I had a situation just like that in 5th grade. By the time I got in 8th grade She was spreading lies about herself for attention.
2006-09-13 18:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a long hair competition?
I wouldn't hang out with her. If she's a good friend/longtime friend or you have fun in other ways, you can tell her up front that you're sick of hearing her blah blah blah about your hair, and to change the subject already; or make a joke out of it. If she's not such a good friend, stop hanging out with her. No need to torture yourself!
2006-09-13 18:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, I remember those days.
It is hard to confront someone about that, but you should try it. If she gets upset about it, let her go on her little rants and raves, but don't retaliate. Let her say what she wants and when she's done say "I'm sorry you feel that way," or something. If she cannot get over you expressing how you feel about being made fun of, then you do need a new friend.
Good luck!
2006-09-13 18:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know violence doesn'e solve anything , but it sure feels good, when fresh from an *** kicking , ah yeah the good old days,
anyways , you need to put your foot up her *** , and tell her that she is an *** who deserves to get an *** kicking for that , kick her to the curb , and remind her that she does have a choice of an *** kicking or to kiss the pavement with her face,, so do your thing ,,,,,,
2006-09-13 18:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people tend to say bad things about others because it makes them feel good about themselves. I know some might disagree but maybe you and your best freind should try to find out if she's alright at home or if she has problems. Then maybe you guys can help her deal with it.
2006-09-13 18:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard of threes a crowd . well i bet this girl is so sick of hearing my best friend this and that and feels like a 3rd wheel.i just read this and ok you got a best friend i hope you don't rub it in her face as she probably feels like chopped liver. why don't you and your 'best friend' ride off in the sunset. cause it seems the best friend part puts me off.
2006-09-13 18:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a new friend. Just stop hanging out with her. She seems a little insecure.
2006-09-13 18:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by all1g8r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋