2006-09-13 18:06:17 · 31 answers · asked by EXPO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honestly bro, unless you want to end up in jail there is nothing you can do to a person like that. I have been on both ends throughout my life and I'll tell you, if I had used a person, unless they came around and whooped me somehow, there was nothing socially or emotionally that could have been done to "get back at me." Let it go. If you are an ambitious person learn from it and move on. You can't go on living your life on the lookout for a woman to hurt you either, you may make a different mistake.
In short do what you like because this is the one thing that only you have control over in your life and that control is only whether you bet the pass line or the don't pass line(craps terminology).
2006-09-13 18:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by shotouthype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for revenge, I wonder if you are a Scorpio (we are the ones who love revenge).
I have read all the answers and most people told you not to bother revenge and to move on with your life and be happy - that will be the best revenge.
Guess what? They are right!
But I understand you and I sympathize and empathize with you. However, try to understand yourself. You want revenge because you have been hurt. Maybe you think the revenge will make you feel better, make the hurt go away. But revenge takes so much out of you (time, energy, feelings) and ties you to the person even more. What you need to do is break free from this person. So the best thing is to wipe this girl from your mind - she ceases to exist and just move on with your life.
Good luck!
2006-09-14 02:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the world the truth of EVERYTHING even if some of it make you look bad,but it will help you get over her. Do it at MySpace and everywere that you can blog it.
The police show the pictures of "Johns" or "Janes" to the world. A "John" or a "Jane" is a way Law Enforcement descirbe a woman or a man{mainly men} that want to pick up a gigolo or prostitute for sex.
TELL the TRUTH and nothing but the truth.
2006-09-13 18:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bad Axe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't give her the benefit of a second thought. Let it go, show that you don't think that she's even worth your mental worry and time.
Revenge really just sends the ultimate message that you're hurt and desperate and fixated on the person. Go be happy and put her out of your mind. It's the best payback for being treated badly, and you'll be happier for it too.
2006-09-13 18:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by profJohn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hon, you might not like what i have to say but the best way to get even is to not too. why waste time and energy on someone who's not worth it, move on with your life and be happy, show her that you couldn't care less about her and that you ARE happy without her. that you are to mature for petty things and maybe wish her a happy life after all it will, I'm a woman and when i saw my ex moving on after i had dumped him and he was actually happier without me it ate me up inside and i realise that i need to move on to, life is for living and doing it well, show her you are someone with great character, and that you are mature, not some silly twit, anyhow all the best.
2006-09-13 18:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont.
here's why.
it's the moral, and ethical thing to do.
not only that but it could possible bring her to a breaking oint as well.
actually the best thing is tell her how this made you feel and how much taht hurt you. i dont know what you mean by "used" but i hope your mature enought to try to help her, and there is not logical reason other than it's the best thing to do for you to do that.
but maybe she needs help badly and this was a cry out?
2006-09-13 18:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Dustin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living well is said to be the best revenge. Move on. Get with someone who really cares. Never look back. Never think back. Revenge is sweet.
2006-09-13 18:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by Rvn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well dont really let it trouble you so much.
Let her realise that you are dignified enough not to do something to ruin her and her reputaion, inspite of her having used you.
At the same time, do make her realise that u r aware of the fact that she has used you.
Feel proud of the fact that u havent sttoped to her levels.
2006-09-13 18:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother trying to get even. It's childish. Just learn from your mistake and move on.
2006-09-13 18:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by the_fatmanwalksalone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Simple as that. No one is worth getting even with...Just ignore it. Trust me, it is the best thing you can do.
2006-09-13 18:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by Maria 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋