right now with her sick and at my home its been very hard seeing her fade away at the time of my dad's death i didnt get this time with him so i told myself i will with her i lost my dad like back in 1990 i miss him very much so we were very close and he was the best any girl could ask for in a father i know in my head my mom is going soon to join him but my heart doesnt want this to happen does this mean he is trying to tell me let her go?
2006-09-13 18:02:26 · 15 answers · asked by shawna_marie_d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It would make me feel good to know that he is there and will be there for her when her time comes. I don't know if he is trying to get you to let go but when my Mama died we were all around her bed and I told her it was okay to let go that we would be fine and we wanted her to go to Jesus. My older sister said she would never tell her that it was okay to go but when she saw Mama struggling then she told her it was okay. Just knowing that your Dad is there should make you feel better knowing she will not be alone. God bless you baby and God be with your Mama
2006-09-13 18:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by KieKie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're going through. My dad passed away back in 1988, and my mom is beginning to fade. Though she isn't terminally ill like your mom is, nonetheless her days are drawing to a close. I dread the day when she's gone. She's been my best friend for years and I know I'll be lost without her. But life goes on and you have to find a way to deal with it. I feel your pain. If you feel the need to "talk", feel free to contact me.
2006-09-14 01:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are very hard to interpret because a lot of the time they can be brought on about what we have been thinking, looking at etc.
I'm sorry to hear about your mum. I battled cancer and survived but I saw many people around me die and it is very sad for the family left behind.
2006-09-14 01:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom. I've lost many
relatives and friends to cancer. It is a extremely difficult
time for you. In regards to your dreams; I, personally, would
interpret it as a sign of comfort in your difficult time. I have
had many dreams about relatives who have passed and
it usually corresponds with a difficult time, AND I always
feel somewhat calmed by them. Truly, it is odd, but very
apparent. I'll pray for you and your Mom. Take Care.
2006-09-14 01:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is letting u know he is there with u through ur pain. say the Lord's Prayer, tell all spirits who are in Christs light to come to u and then meditate. also burn a white candle as u meditate. If it doesnt seem to work the first time keep trying.
i am sorry for all u are going through. i will pray for u and ur mother. God Bless. and yes, sweety, u have to let her go. know that her suffering will end, she will be in heaven, pain free.
most definately ur dad is with u and ur mother.
2006-09-14 01:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by bedroomeyes#1 s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry about your loss. I lost my mom in 92 and dream about her, too. It could be that yes, he was telling you it's time to let go and not worry, because she'll be with him. Do you feel like your mom's holding on for your sake? There will probably come a time when you'll feel okay with telling her that it's okay if she lets go.
2006-09-14 01:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe , or he is tryin to comfort, i am sorry about ur dad's passing, and is your mom's cancer fetal or is it treatable if it is you have to be strong and show her that ur there for her even if the worse has to happen you have to show her you can be strong, even if her cancer is not treatable you have make her time left of earth memorable never loose faith,
and ur dad is coming to you to comfort you, or asking you to let her ago, either way don't assume the worse with out knowing 100% , and even if u do find out wut will happen don't let her see u break down OK!!
e-mail me if u wanna talk more.
once again i am sorry u have and had to go through hardship
2006-09-14 01:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad story of yours. It might be similar cases and it relflect on your dream. Anyway, your parents shall live peacefully together in heaven or next life if you trust in. Nobody can live forever....... Pray for them, do good deeds for them when you can. Life goes on........
2006-09-14 01:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by sam45tun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry to hear this....
But your dad is just trying to tell you..he is still around watching over you and your mom.In this life and the next.
No one can be lonely..not in this earth.
2006-09-14 01:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know similar situations have happened to me since ive lost my dad... i think it might be their way of letting you know that their ok and your mom will be ok once shes there.. my heart goes out to you...
2006-09-14 01:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by amn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋