yestrday in a party one of my bf's frend tried to kiss me.he said tat he loves me.i ve strted hating him.
bt after the party he said sorry for all tat.
shud i tell this to bf coz i m really very scared?????
2006-09-13 18:00:02 · 24 answers · asked by shemaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do so many on here sound like they are 10 years old?
2006-09-13 18:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Try telling your BF but laugh about it and act like the frien was being a joker and you found it humorous. If there was drinking going on though he probably didn't mean to tell you he loves you. I love everyone when I'm drinking to andf I get all mushy honest and lovey dovey. I say things I would never admit while sober like that I think my brother in law is cool.
2006-09-13 18:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. It won't help anything. He obviously feels it was the wrong thing and now realizes that you don't want him back. He is probably embarassed that he put his heart on the line & you rejected him.
If however, he keeps at you and won't leave you alone, especially physically advancing on you, then you have to do something but as for now, just forget it ever happened. I am sure he wishes you would.
2006-09-13 18:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend is an open minden person I guess you should, but if not dont tell him, this could just start a fight between the two of you. Maybe the kiss is just a platonic kiss, weighing before you tell it to your boyfriend. being honest may sometimes be a very not good idea.
2006-09-13 18:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by flower_roxy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just wait it out. Has he ever done something like this before? If not it may have just been a dumb party thing. If he ever tries again then sure tell your bf, you don't want to start un-needed drama.
2006-09-13 18:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Azure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was your BF's friend drunk? If so, he's probably got a bad enough drinking problem that he should deal with it-- you have to be fairly drunk to cross that line.
Is he still bothering you after the fact? Why are you scared?
I personally would tell my bf-- but would your BF beat up his friend?
2006-09-13 18:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. How long have you been with your b/f? How good of a friend is this guy? Do you think it happened because your b/f was testing you? Also why are you scared? If it was scary I would tell in heart beat.
2006-09-13 18:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him because that way it looks like you are not hiding anything and also he may end up hearing it from someone else at the party and that way you will look worse
2006-09-13 18:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
scared of what?
Did the guy not mean it when he said he was sorry? Or are you afraid they will fight over you?
Either way, it's their problem in their friendship, not your problem. You pick the one you like, and if they have a problem, that's for them to sort out between them.
2006-09-13 18:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by jarm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is something you can keep to yourself.
What are you scared of? He was probably just a bit drunk. He didn't try to hurt you, he tried to kiss you. Just tell him that you're very flattered but you're happy with who you are with.
2006-09-13 18:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋