when u meet your MU after so many years,,,happy as can be, together you reminisce and seems he wants the time back.....but something while we talk, i recognize.... he is very different person...his ways are gay's. what would you feel about it....but he is a married man. please answer..is there any other person who have experience as i do?
2006-09-13 17:55:10 · 6 answers · asked by alluring 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmm, I had a friend from school and ran into him and his roommate at a store a good 10 yrs later. Whoa...big difference! I still had to question "Is he ... ?" but I guess it doesn't matter really. We still had good conversation and he was just as friendly and yes he had married before. I didn't ask and he didn't tell. Don't read too much into it unless he hits on you. People can pick up on the fact you are uncomfortable.
Best of Luck...
2006-09-13 18:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by vikingsonsltw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...not sure what an MU is but it sounds like you're concerned that someone may be gay, and he's married, and you don't know what to do about it. Am I right?
If so, then you need to understand a few things about "being gay". There's nothing you can do about it. You can't change anything about him because it's not your place.
The fact that he is married is a personal choice for him. I myself have known several gay men that married women to have a "normal life" and to have children. Some of these men were not able to "come out" as gay before they were married, because of the times that they lived in or that they weren't able to understand that they were in fact gay.
You need to be more open and understanding with him right now. Treat him the way you would want to be treated if you were in his shoes...love him as you would any other MU....if that's what you call it :)
2006-09-14 01:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is Bisexual..Or gay but doesnt want to be find out. Did you know that there are more women than men and the probability of you meeting someone else is higher than him coming out of the closet? Move on girlfriend. I bet the right person for you is just around the corner.
2006-09-14 01:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be happy reminiscing about your good times, though it seems from your quick asessment he is bisexual or gay. There are married men who are gay or bisexual. Odd that you only notice it now. Try to think about how he was before, when he was with you.
2006-09-14 01:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by th'o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, what's a MU?
2006-09-14 00:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Backstage Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a gender nonconformity does not mean a person is gay
2006-09-15 23:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋