I am pregnant and always seem to be so angry with my fiance, for everything >not cleaning or helping mostly. sometimes I wonder if it really is my pregnancy hormones, am I falling out of love with him for real?? I don't even want to hug or kiss him anymore.
2006-09-13 17:53:46 · 9 answers · asked by 0bnsgrl0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are most likely feeling overwhelmed with pregnancy and keeping an orderly household - who knows, maybe working outside the home, too? It's a lot to take on alone. Especially when someone else who is perfectly able to help, doesn't!
Marraige doesn't make any thing better, it actually seems to amplify all the minor irritations over the years.
Make sure to be able to effectively communicate your concerns. Do not minimize them thinking it's only overactive hormones. Your feelings are justified. And he needs to be aware.
Nagging him isn't the way. That will just drive him away from you. Talking heart to heart and letting him know exactly what you need/want from him is the best way. If he doesn't respond in a positive fashion, consider postponing the marraige until you are taken seriously. He's already got you living with him, knocked you up, and now, in his mind, you are a nag. What is the point of getting married now? What's in this for YOU?
2006-09-13 18:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you probably have a vaild reason for being upset if he's not helping, but the extreme emotions over it are a result of the pregnancy. I didn't want my husband to touch me half the time and I stayed hurt, frustrated, and feeling unappreciated the majority of the time... and he was trying his best!
2006-09-14 01:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones hormones hormones!!!
You need to sit him down and tell him that you love him dearly, but the coming months are going to be hard on both of you.
With some determination from both of you...things will work out!
2006-09-14 00:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just your hormones talking...wait till the baby comes:)
2006-09-14 00:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything stupid. try talking to him communication is the key to any relationship. without it you will certainly break up
2006-09-14 00:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from me.. its just your pregnancy... trust me.. i have 2 little angels and thats the thing i did when i was pregnant... yeah... just wait for that little baby hon... it's just you
2006-09-14 00:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol that comes with the baby hon
2006-09-14 00:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a poor guy indeed.
2006-09-14 00:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by Gypsy Catcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of it is normal..... depends on how far you go with your anger....... you need to talk to your doc...... this needs attention...... women change while carrying a child and in extreme cases it can be dangerous...... so PLEASE talk to your doctor............ NOW !!!!!!!! God bless
2006-09-14 01:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋