A person that has cheated on you or a person that you thought was a friend.
2006-09-13 17:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by snippity snap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is always better to try to sort things out, go to the person and try to get every thing in the open.We are humans, not perfect, we all make mistakes. Good friends are hard to find, try to make peace.
2006-09-13 17:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we each as a person, a human being have the God given right to get, recieve, and also to return respect and compassion from and to others.... when we are hurt , heartbroken or torn apart by another we have relied upon, trusted or loved, our first reaction is for revenge or confrontation ... yes, letting it all out can be a good thing if done in a respectful way, if possible.... getting straight to the point, informing them of how they made us feel is part of healing...... but we must know when the time is right for such a thing.... doing it in the heat of anger, is sometimes more dangerous for us than them..... so, I suggest letting a small amount of time pass, to cool off and regain composure and to heal a bit, then if needed to confront....... God bless
2006-09-14 00:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's actually quite great. Now you may suffer from dreams or nightmares that have them peole within them, but once you confront those people all the nighthmares will end and you will feel great. But remember after you confriont them you still may feel cheated and alone.
2006-09-14 00:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Armanisilk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T THINK THAT CONFRONTING THEM IS A GOOD IDEA BECAUSE ALL THEY DO IS DENY WHAT THEY'VE DONE AND IT BECOMES AN ARGUMENT. YOU TELL THEM THAT THEY'VE HURT YOU AND THEY JUSTIFY WHY THEY FEEL THAT IT WAS RIGHT AND ACCEPTABLE...I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THAT, AND YOU DON'T EITHER!
YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT PEOPLE ARE WHO THEY ARE, AND YOU CAN'T CHANGE THEM INTO SOMETHING THAT THEY'RE NOT CAPABLE OF BEING.
PRAY FOR THEM AND MOVE ON.
2006-09-14 01:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it let u open up to that person and it makes that person understand that your feeling where hurt and it make ther other person fill guilt for what they did it could also bring u closer to that persone
2006-09-14 00:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by leo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it's best not to do it in person. Write your feelings out, and send it... otherwise, they may try to suck you into their lies and illogic.
2006-09-14 00:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing better... especially when you know that you are in the right.
2006-09-14 01:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Backstage Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it will only prolong the healing.
2006-09-14 00:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by eurobrit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋