2006-09-13 17:46:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unless the porn is something gross (bestiality, lolita complex, etc.) it is a perfectly healthy thing to watch. It doesn't mean he has any problems.
2006-09-13 17:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by somedays_lovely_dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I sure wouldn't appreciate it you should be enough for your husband he shouldn't have to look at porn my husband and I don't go for that stuff if your husband wants to see a woman naked he has you their isn't any sense in him watching porn especially when he has a woman he can be with my husband and I rather have the real thing porn is pointless if I were you I would put a password on the download site that would fix his clock!
2006-09-13 18:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be mad. if it is bothering you, then you should talk to him about it. i look at porn everyday and also have a happy marriage. my wife knows i enjoy porn. we have watched some together, but i prefer to watch it alone. i think my wife is beautiful and the stuff i download from the internet doesn't change that. the male brain is a crazy thing.
dr. phil downloads porn too. that guy is a maniac. i am really glad i am not married to some of the close minded battle axes trying to give you advice.
2006-09-13 18:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by hkid77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn for guys is like chocolate and romance novels for women. So think of it like this:
When you are watching your soap operas or reading your romance novels, does it make you want to cheat on your husband and leave him for the hunky male character named Chad? No. It is fiction, made up purely for pleasure and fantasy.
Can you imagine how you would feel if your husband came to you and said "How DARE you read romance novels! That smut! You don't love me! How could you do this to me!" bla bla bla and then ran into the bathroom and cried for two hours.
That's how he feels (or would feel) about you approaching him about the porn.
Porn is not a big deal. It's a fantasy. Take a man's porn away and next thing you know he's going to be humping your leg (a lot more) and asking you to do way freakier things than you want in the bedroom.
Trust me, as long as it's not child/animal/or really freaky porn, let him be.
2006-09-13 17:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jen S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It honestly depends on your beliefs and how you feel about it. i would be careful though.... internet porn is way out from the norm. and eventually people arent just satisfied with regular porn sites and they go to the next level, and the next level...etc. Ive seen it become an addiction. Eventually, after all this exposure to crazy sex.... normal sexual intimacy isnt enough. Personally, I dont accept it....but everyone is different.
I have to respond to the comment below.... you cannot compare getting off to watching strangers pound away on each other to reading a romance novel. They are nothing alike.
2006-09-13 17:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by wingsfan1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays, it's easy and even free to download and install
pornographic images onto a file in the computer. I used to do
that also. You shouldn't be upset or mad when your husband
has done it. The important thing is that he loves and cares for
you. He's just curious, like me, wanting to see for himself how
love making in different ways with different women is like. It's
very educational too. Maybe you should join him to watch also
with an open mind! Both of you can do it in private to experience
more pleasure.
My advice to you is stay cool and be understanding with your
husband.
2006-09-13 18:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by steplow33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like porn, it's a fact of life...it doesn't have anything personal against you. Women that have a "no porn" policy have the husbands that are...um..."working late" or "cleaning the garage" and they have to hide, lie & sneak. Surprise him by watching it with him!
2006-09-13 17:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is never good for any relationship- you can assume he has a problem and a fantasy life no woman could live up to-get help fast- hopefully he will admit it and get out of it- the sooner the better- for help see-www. pureonline.com take care- D
2006-09-13 18:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband looks at porn all the time. I think it's better than cheating.
2006-09-13 17:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-09-14 15:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so. I am realizing that almost all men do this one or another time. Just be sure to have sex with him, so he doesn't start substituting you for his fantasies. And try to fix whatever is wrong in your marriage. Men usually go there when they are sexually neglected by their wifes (for whatever reason.)
2006-09-13 19:14:58 · answer #11 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋