I am a gay guy that is scared too death of my boyfriend killing me.My boy friend cut me up with a knife and said if he see me talking to other boys, or espicially talking to woman, he was going to kill me. After that He spit in my face and kick me in the stomach. The next day when he seen my talking to one of my lady friends, he hit me in my back with an iron that was hot and had sex with me punching me in the face while on top of me. Please help me I am scared to death and do not know what to do.
2006-09-13 17:12:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
EEEEEK...OK...it's time to grow up...many of us have the same reaction...whaty are you waiting for "LEAVE" I would have been out the door the minute he spit on me...your still reading this you have issues...there are many good people offering you advice and it's time you man up and get before he gets you!!!
2006-09-13 19:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by joy ride 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow... that sounds awful. Of course, you know that your boyfriend can't possibly love you, right? If he did - he wouldn't wan to hurt you the way he does. Nobody deserves an abusive relationship. It would be best if you went to seek help from a relationship counselor. I know you probably know this already, but the next step is just to get it done. No one - NO ONE - deserves to be anyone else's punching bag. And the way you sound - he possibly could kill you if he doesn't care that a hot iron hurts you - or that pnching you while you are having sex gets him off. I feel for you - although I don't even know you - I hope you will seek a counselor or better yet - go to the police and have this man arrested. Watch yourself and try to take care.
2006-09-13 17:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Myzz Undastood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, what the hell are you still doing there??? Do you have any friends to talk to that can help you with a place to stay? Buddy, you have no other choice than to go to the police and file a report on him. Be careful and good luck!
2006-09-14 15:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by fairyjin1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! i have one word for you LEAVE and do it now. I know its ateffifying situation but its for the best. think about if this continues you might end seriously hurt or worse dead. this guy is not your boyfriend hes the opposite. You desrve better than that,idk where u found this guy but he sounds more dangerous than anything else. first u got 2 leave him,but dont do it when your alone beccause he might try something. once u leave tell someone quickly. its the best thing u can do,TRUST me because if u keep quiet it will happen to someone else. i know u dont want that.
good luck with this and contact me if u want to talk
2006-09-13 17:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by lala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to call the police! I know that you don't want anyone to know that you are gay, but he's using that to blackmail you into staying with him. Like I said in my answer to your last question, you need to leave him! Call the police if you need to, search on-line for a resource center in your area that you can call for support, let your family know that you don't want him coming around anymore. Get out of this relationship before something really bad happens!
2006-09-13 17:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious you need to get help. You should move and put a little space between you two. If you dont want to do that maybe you should actually get the police to be there when you move out.
2006-09-13 17:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops and have him arrested...you deserve better than that!!! He needs help and if it's happened once it will not stop now. Love yourself enough to help yourself out of that situation, PRONTO!!!
There is something wrong with you to pull this B.S. with people that might actually give a $hit! Knock it off, a$$hole!!!
2006-09-13 17:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police and get a restraining order, QUICK! He is bad news and you need to get away from him. Nothing is worth being treated as a punching bag.
2006-09-13 17:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by mik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave while your still alive. Go to the police and perhaps you can press charges against him or at least get a restraining order or something they can help you.
2006-09-13 18:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and get a restraining order. Sounds like your boy has some control issues..
2006-09-13 17:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by PROLADY 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋