my boyfriend was a nice person intil we had sex for an hour.Everysince than, hes been really dangerous to be around. Everytime he sees me, he starts hitting on me and throwing things at me like lamps, glass plates. i am a gay guy that wants to know why is my boyfriend behavior changed all of a sudden
2006-09-13 16:52:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
With certain personalities, sex is a way for them to have control. He may feel that you are his to control, therefore you will never leave him. It's the same with wife beaters. I really hope you get out fast. Good luck, luv.
2006-09-13 17:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you found an abusive guy. Most are sweet and nice until they think that the relationship is signed, sealed, delivered. In your case he feels that taking your relationship to the level of sex has sealed the deal on your relationship. He feels that he owns you now. Get out while you can! This guy is no good. He may also have insecure feelings about his sexuality. He may feel guilty about having gay sex, and takes that guilt out on you. In any case, you need to leave now before he does some serious damage.
2006-09-13 17:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a distinction between easy and ethereal flirting - I call it being alluring - and flirting for the purpose of having a woman in mattress. What he's doing is thoughtless and impolite. You cant substitute him and he wont substitute till he gets older and (optimistically) a sprint extra mature. additionally shop in mind that hes doing this by using fact of a few sort of lack of self assurance. perhaps he substitute into fat as a new child or something and how he's reveling contained in the attention. Regardless, youve advised him the form you sense approximately it. If he doesnt know that, then pass on.
2016-09-30 22:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him he seem to only want you for the sex
if he is throwing thing around he is not worth it any way don't be in a relationship where you can get hurt
sex seems to have change your man
he might be just acting nice till sex happened but now sex with you is all he want
not all men are like that but there are a lot of them that are
2006-09-13 16:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Zara3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i honestly think its the sex. He was just putting on a front until you gave it up. He think that now that he have had sex with you, he have you where he wants you, dont give in to him. Leave him alone before you seriously get hurt. Before i had sex with my bf (i am a female) he was the sweetest guy a woman could want. Although he doesnt hit me, he have changed dramatically. Its like everything depends on sex. You need to leave him especially if he hits on you. Its not worth it. Find someone else who is gonna love you for you and not for your sex.
2006-09-13 17:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Keeta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what exactly would make his behavior change so drastic. But I do know that it happens a lot in heterosexual relationships. At least you're not alone in your experience. I don't think it's a good idea for you to stay in your relationship - leave your boyfriend, even if it's just till he gets himself figured out. It's more important to keep yourself safe than to maintain a fragile relationship.
2006-09-13 16:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, normally getting laid by one's significant other will typically make a guy more loving and amicable. This guy just sounds like a psycho. As far as I'm concerned anyone who throws objects at another person intending to hurt them is a violent criminal and should be arrested. Violence is tolerated far too readily in our society, and as I see it it's inexcusable. People like to think their emotional state can justify assault, and it just doesn't.
2006-09-13 17:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not gay anymore and is mad at himself and wants to beat you to make him feel manly. Sex always changes things in a relationship. Hope you are alright and safe.
2006-09-13 16:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by PROLADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has some issues to work out. You might be better off not being around him for a while.
2006-09-13 17:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get AWAY from him and try to figure it out from a distance.
I would stay away for good..............he sounds deranged.
Sometimes irrational behavior cannot be explained and it is not worth it or safe to hang around to find out.
2006-09-13 16:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋