he's says we are holding him back and he doesn't want to hold me back. but i dont have anyone but him and the kids. NOw he wants to leave me because he was incarcerated and thinks i cheated on him. But to be honest with you all i really didn't. I don't know y he's being so insecure but i don't know what to do. Olease help!!!!
2006-09-13 15:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by Lady T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK i wouldn't look to deep in this or take it to seriously because he may be different but he may have cheated on and now he is feeling the guilt and trying to put all the blame on you.
but on another hand try give him so much space that he will feel like he can do anything everything except see other women.... a bit of reverse psychology but secret!
2006-09-13 15:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by tegan j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds bad. Why was he incarcerated? Maybe he is frustrated that he can't do ne thing with u n u being there he is too miserable. As for the kids he thinks thats what u would want. Just an opinion. No one can tell u what is up with him. I am not really sure how u will get the truth out of him why he wants u to leave. He cant want another woman. So I dont know why
2006-09-13 15:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cassandra D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Life happens first of all. If you did nothing wrong you have nothing to be ashamed of. He is holding you back for sure. He is not worth all that you are going through. You have so much without him. I say let him go and i can promise you this. There will be someone else who will love you and your children. You are their role model and they see what you do. Give him up and maybe just maybe he will see what he has lost and then he will know what you are feeling right now. We women have more strength than we sometimes know. Reach down deep and find the strength to let go. You will be better off without him.
2006-09-13 15:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's the one doing the cheating. Girl, you know that if he leaves that he still has to pay support and help out with the kids, so I say kick him to the curb and you will find someone that deserves you! He will have no choice about paying support and if he doesn't he will go to jail!!!
2006-09-13 15:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell really bad for you! Please take pride in yourself and make a life for yourself and your kids. I promise you can do it! I know this is beside the point but, that's why you should always establish a relationship(marriage) with a person before you have children. When you can stand on your own two feet, then look to for a great person to compliment your life! Don't repeat old patterns learn from them! I wish you lots of luck and happiness!
2006-09-13 15:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heis willing to dump you and the kids you don't need him, plus wiht him being a con isn't what yo need anyway.
Dump his butt and make him folk out child support.
He isnt insecure he's want out of his responsibility. It's a serous problem with children and he should be pround to pay child support for his children.
2006-09-13 15:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to be away from you. I don't think he's being insecure. Just make sure you get child support from him.
2006-09-13 15:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by answersBeta2.1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb!!!!!!!!!!! You can do better than this for your children. I know it must hurt but let the fool go.
2006-09-13 15:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by sassilass06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's cheated, and feeling guilty.
2006-09-13 15:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋