Me and my girlfriend split up due to misunder standing she wanted to party and not pay bills i wnated her to be with me most of the time
2006-09-13 15:19:32 · 9 answers · asked by man_with_half_a_heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should only take her back if you`re willing to accept her for the way she is and you can deal with her lack of responsibility. If it bothers you really bad and it will cause further arguments, you should just suck it up and let her go. Asking her or trying to make her change will probably drive her further away from you. People only change when they want to change. You can`t force it. I hope that you get the answer you`re looking for here, but keep in mind these are only opinions. Only your heart can lead you in the right direction. Good luck! I hope whatever happens makes you happy in the end. :-)
2006-09-13 15:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do it. You don' t give a lot of info here but what you do say says it all. The two of you are not compatable. She wants to party you want to stay at home. That is a basic difference that is always gonna be a bone of contention or else one of you is going to have to change and do the thing you don't like just to keep peace and stick with the other. That is not what a relationship is about. Let her go have her fun and you go find someone who wants to stay in with you.
Also if she is choosing to party over paying bills she is not on the same level of maturity that you are and not paying the bills will lead to trouble. You are better off, realize it and move on.
2006-09-13 22:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then what is the misunderstanding?? You said what you wanted and expected of her it seems!! If she don't want what you want in life then there is not a misunderstanding there!!! You just need to find someone who wants what you want in Life! and find someone who is responsible enough to help pay bills and not wanting to party all the time!! Life is not a big party, life is tough sometime and you need someone who will help you through the tough times !!! Sound like you need to move on with it!!!
2006-09-13 22:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by sports_runner_racing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you want to be back in the same situation. Stick it out through the pain and you might find a fun girl who is responsible and likes you the way you like her next time. Good luck!
2006-09-13 22:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Helpful Kim 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes but make sure she knows what you want and how you feel about the situation... it is important to point ot the facts and if she doesnt want you then even thoe you proberly just pored your heart out to her i would just move on but not forget about her. maybe some day if you do this she'll realise that she made the mistake not you!
good luck!
2006-09-13 22:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by tegan j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love her go get her but if you can't make rules in your relation ship that she gone follow leave her alone every relationship needs rules if there's rule the relationship will last longer
2006-09-13 22:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by REESE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If all she wants to do is party and not pay her bills, then she is still inmature and certainly not ready for a serious relationship.
2006-09-13 22:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by zoe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my boyfriend is doing the same thing and it hurts. Cause u realize ur not at the top of her list. think about it, find a girl who will be w u because she wants to, not because u ask her all the time to do it... really frustrating
2006-09-13 22:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dra. Mejía 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on. You'll find someone who shares your values. Don't settle.
2006-09-13 23:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Duma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋