sometimes i wanna be part of the "crowd". hang with the popular people. but it's hard when u already have a not so popular life, so ur reputation is hard to change. what should i do?
2006-09-13 15:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by bubblemilktea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being popular may seem wonderful sometimes. Then you realize how it's so stupid. Most popular kids don't have friends that understand them. They're miserable. Just be yourself, have fun, talk to people and you'll bop to the top. I'm sure you're a wonderful person. But I've been there. Done that. Good life!
2006-09-13 15:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, first and foremost. Don't change your reputation to fit into someone else's little definition of who you are and what you should be!
Don't be someone else just so you can fit in with the "popular crowd" who are mostly legends in their own minds anyway. Eventually that little clique thing will sort of fade away and then people can just be friends, good friends, casual friends, etc.
This trying to belong to the "popular crowd" thing is never-ending - it has been around forever and I guess will always be - as long as there are people who think they are better than someone else and get enough other people to believe it, too. Those are the "popular" people.
2006-09-13 22:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be really popular. But I kinda fell out of it. It seems so glamorous and awesome from the outside, but once you're in, there is so much more drama, and back stabbing and everything else. It's way worse you'd think. Plus, you never really have a best friend, you're kinda friends with everybody, and theres nobody to confide it, and not really anybody you can trust. I would just stick with what you've got. After I fell out of it, I got a group of about 4 girls and 3 guys, and they are my bestest of best friends, the ones who were always there and always will be. That's the best thing you can have, so I'd just stay with that.
2006-09-13 22:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Popularity is not really good as it seems. when you get into the crowd you will find the worst part of popularity its problems problems and more problems .i am totally like you and the last year i tried to be popular so i changed myself a little bit but officially i failed in trying being popular .so my advice to you is to be yourself and smile to them.
2006-09-14 05:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt care all popular ppl are popular frum the wrong reasons...talkin bac 2 da teacher, too pretty, or...MEAN! Do u wanna be mean?
2006-09-13 22:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by HappyState™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, being popular is not always sunny and fun. you have to be someone else in every way.
be yourself and love yourself.....work your way to be the best you can be to yourself and others.
2006-09-13 22:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a crowd is a crowd,, be yourself
2006-09-13 22:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on the TV show Made on MTV. :D
2006-09-13 22:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Catastrophic. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to be happy by yourself
2006-09-13 22:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by don;t know 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋