I am from a country in Europe called Albania. This summer of 06 I visited there for the first time in 7 years. I loved it. I went for my aunts wedding. There were a bunch of kids on the street. I really really liked this one boy named Kristi. Chris in english. He asked me out in the last 2 weeks. To be his girlfriend. I, of course, said yes. Now i do have a problem that i really really miss him. But thats not the point. My problem is that I can't tell my mom any boy stuff like most of my friends do with their moms. She just never listens. She says I can have a boyfriend when I am 17. I dont feel good lying to my mom. But she doesnt understand. How do I make her understand that I want a boyfriend by the time I am 12 or at least 13?
2006-09-13 15:10:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just for everyones information, I no I am young but 17 is just too old.
2006-09-13 15:21:27 · update #1
She just doesnt understand. And besides, she knows this boy. She and her mom used to be friends and our granddads are good friends. they live across the street from each other.
2006-09-13 15:22:43 · update #2
your mom want to protect you u don't know maybe this boy is a good or bad person ... i think u should tell your mom and she will help you finding out what kind of boys is he .. tell her and i think she will understand don't lie to her..
2006-09-13 15:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by CrAzY LoVeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her "Why did God make girls able to get pregnant b4 I can even go out with a boy" Who knows best God or you" Stand out of arms reach when you ask this, and skillfully stay out of reach for a few days. I predict she will not have a reason that sounds intelligent.
!00 years ago all girls were thinking as you do and many were married at 12. Older women in the pursuit of power, and because they did not like the competition banded together with Dads who wanted their daughters around to help them feel young decided to perpetrate this culture of wait till you are older thing. It's not natural and leads to pornography and other bad habits.
2006-09-13 15:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh i think that you can have a boyfreind but not like you want one. You are to young for a boyfreind in my opionion. You need to wait. Find something to take up your time. you are young and you have plenty of time for boyfreinds. Enjoy your youth and most of all enjoy your Mom loving you enough to care waht happens to you. She will not always be here to help you alone your way. These are gifts you only get once in a lifetime. Cherish them while you have the chance
2006-09-13 15:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your mom loves you and boys lead to no good you could lose your verginity or you could get your heart broken bad and it hurts but your just to young sweety I was like that at your age now I understand you don't want to end up pregnant.!!!!!
2006-09-13 15:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by REESE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually u don't have to tell her.. at least till u r 17 .. especially if ur mom is tie the leg with a rope and lock the room with the key type ..
or else.. just tell her u met a nice guy, and keep mentioning the name of ur BF again and again.. u don't have to tell her what u guys did together.. just what he is like..
years later, that name would be TOO familiar to her.. and she will accept the term that you are in love and not about letting him go..
2006-09-13 15:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋