Ok I think I did something really bad. I have this bf that I like alot but hes been lieing and stuff to me latly so I've been really pissed off at him. So today I was sitting with my friend and stuff then this guy named well we'll call him SL comes up to us and sits like right next to me. I was just like okay this is awkward but I'll just go with it. So ne ways we were sitten and talking and may I add that I don't even really know this guy. We are kinda like aquaintences. Ne ways so we were sitting and talking and then he just like puts his arm around me and stuff and I didnt say ne thing cause hes like really hot. And I liked him quite a bit b4 me and my bf were together. So then he like asks my friend.....
Can kiss your friend?
And my friend is like yeah I dont care.
So then he like leans in and kisses me. I just kinda went with it cause I didn't wanna be rude. So I'm like kissing this guy and stuff and then like the bell rings and hes like see yeah next period. So like I feel bad
2006-09-13 14:47:15 · 12 answers · asked by Chaysee 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Has ne thing like this ever happend to you...and if so what did you do?
WHAT SHOULD I DO????
2006-09-13 14:48:05 · update #1
I'm not worried about it getting all over school...I'm worried about what my bf will think of me. But then I don't really feel bad b/c I was suposta breake up with him like on fri. sat. sun. mon. tues. and I just keep putting it off...I need help bad.....
2006-09-13 14:53:34 · update #2
Here's a little piece of advice to take with you as you grow up.... Stop letting random guys kiss you.. especialy while you have a boyfriend.
Honey, it's bad practice to kiss/flirt/anything else with a guy who ISN'T your boyfriend (unless your single of course hehe). Now, let me step off my soap box.
Break up with your boyfriend. If you were going to do it before hand, theres no reason to stop now. The best thing you could do is just let your boyfriend go. But make sure you're not doing it because of this other guy, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
You could tell him about the kiss, or you could wait until everyone else tells him and let him break up with you over it. This new guy may not even want to date you, he may just be a tease/flirt. So it would be a bad decision to break up with your boyfriend for this new guy, have your own reasons.
By the way, it's not rude to pull back and say "um.. I'm flattered but.. I have a boyfriend. I'm sorry." Or tell him that you're kinda seeing someone right now but it's not working out, tell him if he really likes you he'll wait until you get things straightened out with the other guy.
Wow, I miss being a teen. LOL.
2006-09-13 22:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by BadWolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think letting him kiss you because you didnt want to be rude is just an excuse girlfriend. You let him kiss you because you kind of liked him.
What that tells me is that you're pretty much over your b/f's crap and are ready to move on. Otherwise you would've pushed the other guy away.
Break up with your bf. It doesn't sound like you two have a good relationship anyway if he's lying to you about a bunch of stuff.
2006-09-14 04:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good story!!!! So ne ways, this happened to my friend. She was sorta wid this guy and then this boy she liked came over and hugged in like a love hug right in front of her sorta' bf. Then her bf got all jealous and then she totally broke his heart by telling him that she didn't really like him very much, so she and him r now over and she is with this guy now and creepily, her old bf is now interested im ME. Eww. I so dont like him...
So, ne ways, do what is right in ur heart. If you like him (the boyfriend) then stay with him, but if you think it is like so over, then you will know what to do. Breaking up with someone isnt hard. and to make this desision easier, here is what you should do...
fold a pice of paper in half or draw a line down the middle, then on one side write LS and on the other one right your bfs name, then in red, right all the bad stuff about each of them on their sides, and then with green pen, write all the things you like about them on their side. Then compare...
Your heart will know which one to choose after you do this...
2006-09-13 15:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are STUPID..what the heck were you thinking..you didnt want to be rude?? if u didnt wanna kiss him f*ck being rude..tell him to back up..but now its too late you already f*cked up..you need to tell your boyfriend and hope that he is dumb enough to forgive you. Are you sure u even like your boyfriend? because if u really did u wouldnt go around kissing other guys.
2006-09-14 10:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel you like this new hott guy break up with your boyfriend before he finds out and gets hurt a lot more than if you would just end things right now. this hasnt happened to me but i dont think i would do that. i would break up with him and would definetly not cheat on him. weve all heard that saying "what goes around comes around". hope it works out & good luck!!!
2006-09-13 14:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lorena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u let him kiss u and whats worse is that u went along with it lol that is going to get all over school. u should tell ur bf.
2006-09-13 14:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by darkvamp4542 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know you don't like the guy anymore, just get rid of him and stop procrastinating because the longer you date him the less time that leaves you to date SL!!!
2006-09-13 15:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by mya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DOESN'T SEEM LIKE YOU ARE THAT MUCH INTERESTED IN YOUR B/F BECAUSE YOU ARE FLIRTING AND KISSING ANOTHER GUY BEHIND HIS BACK. LET YOUR B/F THAT YOU AREN'T INTERESED ANYMORE AND AVOID A MESSY BREAK-UP. IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN YOUR B/F THEN LET HIM KNOW WHAT HAPPENED, IF YOU'RE PLANNING TO BE WITH HIM THEN HE DESERVES THE RIGHT TO KNOW. NOTHING STAYS SECRET ESPECIALLY IN SCHOOL. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-13 15:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i mean you could but u shuld wait till your older
2006-09-13 18:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur boyfriend and break up with him
2006-09-13 15:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋