Women with a few extra pounds: How do you make yourself feel sexy?

Question

Any advice for me to make myself feel like a woman?

Answer 1

Have a sexy attitude. Walk with your head held high and don't feel ashamed of the way you may look! Think to yourself as you are dressing in the morning about how good an outfit looks on you or how the color might bring out your eyes. Experiment with little mantras throughout the day to see which ones really get you pumped up.
I have more than a few extra pounds and it took me a long time to build up my sex-esteem but I did it and now I have a very wonderful husband (who gets drooled over when we are at the mall or just out together). He told me that the first time he saw me, it was the way I walked into the room that caught his eye, like I walked like a woman who knew what she wanted, lol.

Good luck to you and never count yourself short! You are beautiful, because your question is one of modest self interest, not vanity. Blessings.

Answer 2

I sort of do like the gals on Designing Women: wear a stylish haircut, do my make-up nice, and be sure and dress nicely. I wear a skirt or dress more often than a lot of gals, say half the time at home, and almost always at work -- it helps my morale and, I think, that of the guys I work with, although I don't have the best figure in the place. I wear cologne and some jewelry most days. Be kind, smile -- these things go a long way toward making you feel good and making you attractive despite your imperfections -- which we ALL have!

Answer 3

I wear clothes that compliment my best features { my breasts
& my great legs } I wear makeup when I go out and keep my hair done just so . Perfume always intices compliments . Another cool thing is sexy shoes . The last thing you have to have is a good sence of self an attitude of confidence . { not arrigence }
Love yourself and then others will also love you . You must in my opinion be genuine !!!

Answer 4

As a society we have to stop giving credence to the idea that "sexy" is the model type women that encompass about 2% of the population. I believe that in order to stop the madness, we need to begin with one person at a time. As individuals, we need not buy into the stereotype. Why not begin with you? Appreciate and love your self as you are. I will applaud you and support you. Already you have given me the incentive to join you in this new attitude! Bravo.

Answer 5

im about 30 lbs over weight, and i hate my body alot of the time. but, it always help to buy new clothes. im so in love with my new outfit, that i just feel hot. and when i actually put myself together, a nice outfit, do my hair and make up, i feel good. You should just love yourself cause skinny isnt that good looking anyways, a woman should have curves. i also feel really good when i go to the gym, makes me feel like im working on my self, and then i feel sexy. try working out, itsreally fulfiling

Answer 6

i dont have to make my self feel sexy, i simply am sexy, and i have about 120 extra pounds, but my man loves every ounce. by the way im almost 60

Answer 7

Wear clothes that flatter your body and help to slim you down visually. Many people who are overweight either buy clothes that are too big so they look larger than they are or they buy clothes that are too small and they look larger than they are. It's important to buy clothes that fit and compliment. Secondly, it's important to realize that in order to be sexy you must first feel sexy. If you feel sexy then it will come out in your character naturally.

Answer 8

I don't try to make myself sexy, I don't focus on my exterior. I wear what I want, which happens not be popular. Besides, my boyfirend loves the way I look, I'm happy with that.

Answer 9

it's an attitude not anything in particular , but take time to make yourself feel special wear something sexy do your tonails wear some heels.

Answer 10

Curvy women are very sexy, show off what you got and
you will be surprised at the attention you will get.
self confidence is very appealing as well, be proud of who YOU are.