Of being a Pastor wife, things like that that bother him and he fears. He doesn't doubt me or US, but questions in life,..Tis that love??? Been together for 4 yrs. I think also the stress of me pressuring for marriage lately has been stressing him too??
We are apart now,,,he in Pastoral school.
We have been having sum arguments in the past 3 days...but we always ok in the end....
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Hey Sarah, I am sorry I have not written you anything.
I have allot on my mind lately and I shouldnt be so unfair to you.
I still have worries but I do love you.
I am not really moved to write a long e-mail right now, Im sorry
Sarah.
But I will call you later so we can talk. Pray for me, I am not feeling
good
today
Love Brad
2006-09-13 14:13:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is an old saying that says "If you love someone set them free, if they come back then it true love, and is meant to be, if they don't, then they never truly loved you."
I think that you two being apart is good for the heart, sure he is under a some stress going to seminary school and pressuring him to marry you doesn't help him at all. If anything it may be pushing him away from you. I think that the best thing you can do is to let him know that you support his decision to become a minister. Ease off on the marriage thing, let him finish school and just be his best friend and supporter. The fact that your two are a part is a good test of your love and conviction towards each other, let him know that you care and support him. If he comes back then you know it meant to be.
2006-09-13 14:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by mzatk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pushing for marriage while someone is still in school no matter how long you have been together isn't really fair. He probably has a ton of stuff on his mind and trying to be successful in his classroom studies. Don't add to the pressure, take some off. He will appriciate it later.
2006-09-13 14:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Ruth S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a Pastor is a great responsibility and consumes much time and energy........he is stressing because he is in school and also away from you the lady he loves.........be patient supportive and reassure him of your love and commitment to him and God...........also pray together on phone etc.........for the same things...guidance, well-balancedness, and truth! God Bless you two and Take care!
2006-09-13 14:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure what you're asking. It sounds like you're having some extra anxiety because he is away. There might be reason to believe it, there might not, but these issues are really hard to address when you are not together. There is nothing you can do about it now, so try to relax.
2006-09-13 14:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are a good woman if u stayed with him that long. dont stress you can do it . have faith in u. sound like anyone would want a good wife like u
2006-09-13 14:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by chris browns boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Sounds like he is hurting...bad. If anyone tells you to pray for them, they are thinking of doing something bad. (Hurting themselves, someone else, leaving, etc...) Try to talk to him.
2006-09-13 14:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋