I am a woman and he is a man... we are both gay. We live in a Mormon town and both are in the closet. Lately we been getting questioned by everyone about the nature of our involvement, and accused of "living in sin"... should we devulge that we "front" that we have a hetero relationship so that we can live in peace? Help please! Only serious answers please.
2006-09-13 13:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by gurlybiz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No one needs to know your business. Seriously.
2006-09-13 13:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
What would be the consequences of the two of you coming out?
If they would be easier than being accused of living in sin, then do it.
You both need to choose the path that will make your lives happier. If there is another gay man or gay woman interested in either one of you, then they will not pursue it if you continue with the front. And neither of you will find true happiness.
2006-09-13 20:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by weirdgodess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh'. I urge you both to 'come out of the closet' so you can live your lives. I'm sure you know better than I do that once you do that, you'll be getting all sorts of $hit from people so if you two are both ok with your arrangement, then why worry about changing it? If it aint broke, don't fix it.
2006-09-13 20:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you can live with that, then I see NO PROBLEM. It will solve both your problems.
However, I guess I'm just too in your face and want them to know I'M THERE! If they are uncomfortable with that, good.
Either way, you lose. Scr*w the Mormon's.
2006-09-13 20:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never lie to yourself, doesnt hurt you to live a lie? I am not gay but if i was I would rather live happy. F*&K em if they dont like it. They dont have to be you. Your relationships dont effect them in the least bit so live your life in the fullest...Good luck
2006-09-13 21:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you're able to live a peaceful life, but telling them isn't going to give them an answer they accept, either, I don't think.
2006-09-13 20:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come out when you're ready. If you're worried about them thinking you live in sin you won't like their reaction when they find out the truth. Don't let it be about them and what they think.
2006-09-13 21:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant you be roomates? remember the rest of the world doesnt put sex before everything else. they will think that a roomate situation is platonic and thrifty. Only you have to know your dark side :)
2006-09-13 20:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by chip33302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look way should you care what people think about you... you have every right to live your life the way you want to... i would tell them that it isn't there problem how you live your life so stay out of it...
2006-09-13 21:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by nitefxgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋