what do i do
2006-09-13 13:52:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Home & Garden ➔ Cleaning & Laundry
If you can't lick 'em, lick 'em
2006-09-13 13:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Wiley 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Kids can be cruel but the best way to handle a situation like this is just to ignore them - easier said than done I know but just remember you don't owe those kids any explanation. What your sexuality is, is your business and if you are not bi-sexual then they are bullying you and if you are they are still bullying you and you should see your guidance counsellor for help. No one has the right to bully you. Whatever you do don't feed their curiosity or their cruelness by arguing with them. If they get no response from you they will soon get tired of trying.
2006-09-17 10:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. The more they see that it bothers you the more they will talk. You know the truth and so do the people who really know you. So don't let it get to you. Those people are feeling insecure about themselves for whatever reason, so they have to make someone else feel as crummy as they do on the inside. Seriously, they will get bored eventually and find someone else to pick on. It's hard, but ignore them. Don't give them the satisfaction of letting them know that it gets to you. Just have the "whatever" attitude. Besides, are these the type of people you REALLY want as your friends? If not, then who cares what they think!
2006-09-13 21:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You stated on one of your other questions that you thought you might be bi. Maybe you are. Or maybe just curious. If you are not sure don't commit to one or the other until in your mind you are sure.You are the one who has to look into the mirror in the morning. Your not being sure might be projected to the others in school around you. do you act "the same " to both sexes? Is flirting with both natural to you? They might be judging you by your clothes or language or your way of communicating with other kids in school. It is hard for us to give advise unless we are actually there to see what you project yourself. Just be patient with yourself and see how you develop feelings for others as you mature.
2006-09-13 21:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard, but don't worry about what everyone else thinks or says. Act like you don't even hear them. Soon enough there will be someone else for them to talk about. You know you are not and your good friends know that as well. The more you try to convince people, the more fuel you are adding to their fire. Don't react when people say things. They will see that it doesn't bother you and unfortunately, they will move on to someone else.
2006-09-13 21:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by luvbeingwifenmom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them is the best thing you can do. If you try and defend yourself and argue back then they will tease you more because they know how to get under you skin....Good Luck and soon they will be leaving you alone and picking on somebody else!!
2006-09-13 22:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Carol H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if they're girls making fun just say "listen, I know you have a crush on me, but you're really not my type"
if it's boys making fun say "I'm not bi, I just don't like *you*"
the only thing you have to be is *you*. do whatever it takes to make you happy. rely on your friends and your family, and forget those other fools.
2006-09-13 21:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to defend yourself, the more you try to prove them wrong the more they enjoy the anxiety they are causing you. They dont care about your sexuality they want to get the reaction from you that they are getting. Ignore, ignore, ignore....it may sound lame, but if you dont react you take the pleasure and the power away from them of making your life a misery. You are todays "victim" but tomorrow there will be a new one and you will be forgotten. ride it out, ignore them or laugh it off, but do not try to prove yourself......and you will spoil their fun!
2006-09-13 20:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
So tell em you are and to get over it. Tell em that way you can have a boyfriend and a girlfriend and never get lonely. Screw with them and who cares what those retards say anyways.
2006-09-13 21:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Amy >'.'< 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People at school are good for gossip and causing trouble i would just engore it and if you cant then i would go to the princple and tell him or her the problem maybe that will work. or do something that you normally dont do but i would just stand up for my self i didnt care what people thought of me at school i just let it go or i end up telling them off. but that is me. there bunch of students that acts like there in elem. still they need to grow up what comes around goes around you have to think it that way. so good luck and try not get in to much trouble,
2006-09-13 21:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Makeout with a boy and that will prove you arent. Seriously, just shrugg them off, they are bugging you because they know the teasing affects you. Don't pay attention and they soon will find someone else to pick..
2006-09-13 21:00:55 · answer #11 · answered by empowered2008 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋