im so scarewd to talk to people im shy around everyone and it bugs me cuz it keeps me from making friends i dont kno how to i went to school with the same ppl all my lifew and now im in a new school with no one i kno please help btw im 14 girl
2006-09-13 13:44:29 · 2 answers · asked by a 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Watch people around you, and when you notice that a person seems kind and gentle, ask her a question about her classes. For example, you could ask her if she has any good teachers. You might ask what she thinks about certain classes, or which ones she likes. Do this with several people so that you don't get too dependent on just one person who is nice. Another thought -- if there is a program in the gym or in the auditorium, invite someone you would like to know better to sit next to you. Then ask them to tell you about themselves. Ask if they have brothers and sisters, what they think of certain movies they have liked, and what they think about their teachers. Little by little you'll get a conversation going. Show interest in the other person. People like to talk about their likes and dislikes, and they appreciate it when others really listen.
Good luck!
2006-09-16 17:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by azera221 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start slowly just asking small questions, and just ask to sit with some of the girls at lunch or something. then theyll start to talk, which will take the ease off of you.
i know when i was in school, everyone wanted to meet the "new girl", so im sure youll have no problems.
youll open up and so will they.
cheer up hun :)
2006-09-13 20:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by heretohelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋