English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

my son died at home and his wife will not let me see the death certificate or autopsy report. he was 36 years old in good health I need to know why??

2006-09-13 13:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by greenjeans 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

8 answers

Actually, all of these people telling you that death certificates are public record are incorrect. Since 9/11 and all the new Privacy Acts, death certificates are no longer public record as they once were. You must show just cause and relationship (which you do have, obviously) to the deceased. Go to th local Vital Records and submit the application and pay the fee, I don't see why they won't give you one since you are his mother. My deepest, sincerest condolences to you and your family.

2006-09-13 14:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Reagan 6 · 0 0

Bless your Heart!

Something sounds wrong. If he died at home there would be a police report and that's public information. Get that and talk to the police that were there. I'm not sure how Public the coroners or autopsy reports would be because of all of the new privacy laws. Try going to your local D.A. and explaining your problem. If they wont talk to you try your local county Legal Aid Society.

I have a 32 year old son and if someone tried to stop me from Knowing what went on they would meet a fire storm. NOBODY stands in the way of a Mother.

What is wrong with the daughter-in-law?

2006-09-13 14:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by SNOOP 4 · 0 0

Go to your local "vital statistics" office, as the mother you have the 1st right to his death certificate and it will list the cause of death. You will need to bring with you Prof of relationship.

vital statistics is the same place you get a copy of your birth certificate.

Good luck and I'm sorry to hear about your son, I to have lost a child
You'll be in my prayers.


Though it is true that death certificate are no longer public record since 911, but I lost my child only 3 years ago and had to apply for my sons death records. And you as the mother make this a privet matter and you have first rights to his death certificate any if he was married. As I said before you will need proof of relationship and the average state cost for the copy is $15.00.

God Bless

2006-09-13 13:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0 0

Contact the coroners office in the city/town where he died. I am so sorry for your loss. Is your daughter in law trying to hurt you, or protect you? I would think about what her motive is, it seems like a strange thing to me that she would refuse to let you see those reports. I will say a prayer for you in this difficult time.

2006-09-13 13:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0 0

i wanted to write down and help you recognize the way sorry i'm on your loss and that it wasn't your fault for what exceeded off. The docs are replacing each and every three hundred and sixty 5 days positions for toddlers to sleep in and causes toddlers die from SIDS. i might want to prefer to point you to a internet website that even states that "docs and Nurses do not recognize the reason for SIDS" i desire perhaps you will get the recommendations you want, and that i recognize your son did not die in ineffective you've raised the interest and that i'm positive he's smiling down on his mommy thanking you!

2016-11-26 22:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Depending on where you live, you can get a death certificate and it will list the cause of death. Death certificates are public record.

2006-09-13 13:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by patricia_hyland72 3 · 1 1

Maybe your daughter-in-law is trying to protect you. Your son could have died of a drug overdose or could have killed himself. I'm really sorry about your sons death. You may never know why, and it may be better not to know. Again, I am really sorry about your son. I hope this helps.

2006-09-13 16:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0 0

Go to the court house in the area (county or city... I forget which) that he died in. You might have to pay some $ but it shouldn't be over $20.

2006-09-13 14:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lib 3 · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers