why women only have sex when they feel like it, (control it), and expect their man to remain loyal to them?

Answer 1

Well first off- women do this because they can...

Secondly, why the h-e-l-l are you asking this question under the *Pets* topics? Unless the reason your not loyal to your woman is because your busy with your pets? I just don't get it...sorry!

Answer 2

1) WHY is this question in the "PETS" area of Answers?
This may be a subconscious clue to the problem you are having, honey. We women should not be considered "PETS"!!

2) There is a saying that men heat up like a light bulb and women heat up like an oven. We can't always turn on and off our desires the same way men can.

3) An ADULT male frequently feels loyalty to an ADULT woman who respects and cherishes him. It's called...LOVE.

4) When you learn to respect and cherish a woman you may finally find someone who will share sex with you when you both want it and enjoy it and you won't see it as an issue of "control". Sex really shouldn't be a contest. Not the good stuff, anyway.
If you really want loyalty, EARN it.

Be well.

Answer 3

And this question is in the pets section why? Your statement was a generalization. All men and women are different and have various sexual expectations. If you love someone, you should remain loyal for that reason alone.

Answer 4

First of all women like sex just as much as men. If it feels like she is controlling sex, then maybe you should ask her what is wrong or work on improving your technique!
Secondly, who doesn't like loyalty? If you do not want to be faithful to a woman you are with, just say it right upfront. If she cannot handle it, she will move on. If she can, you should stick with her because this will probably never come your way again in your lifetime. Could, but very rare.
You should read a book on female sexuality. Good Luck

Answer 5

You probably only have sex when you feel like it, too. However, men reach their sexual peak a lot earlier than women do. But, if you can't remain loyal b/c your "woman" only has sex when she feels like it, she needs to show you the door, and you need to grow up.

Answer 6

Well, sex is in relationship outside of marriage is not a given. And if you think it is guaranteed, you are wrong.

Now as for when you want it, maybe if you learned how to treat a woman, it would not be an issue (99% of the time). You are probably not all that wonderful that your presence alone is a constant thrill.

Work on your attitude and remember nothing in life is guaranteed, except death and taxes.

Answer 7

The ladies have a special position in life, from a young age they realize their position in life, and are actually on guard. THEY MATURE early.....In their "Walk of Life", but they also fall victim to life in the same way. Men can recognize most legal, physical, mental problems at the time of desire. Loyalty is not an issue, the effort to have the sexual experience is somehow most paramount, it 'FEELS GOOD'. the IMMATURE man wants that. The woman fears child birth.

Answer 8

What women are you talking about? My friends and I do nothing but complain that we dont get enough sex. All our lives we've been told that men only want one thing, and it turns out they dont really want it that often! I've been lied to. Lied to hardcore.
If we witheld sex for control, we'd only be getting it once a year! If anything, I'd say that men use sex for control far more often than women do.

Answer 9

Not all women are that way... But, if you are dealing with one that is I suggest you don't remain loyal.. Go out and find someone better..

Answer 10

REMAIN LOYAL??? U GOTTA BE KIDDING RIGHT??? WELL THIS IS THE WAY IT IS.... IF U WERENT IN THE MOOD FOR SEX ALL THE TIME ... WOULD U LIKE IF UR GURL/WOMAN CHEATED ON U???? YEAH I THOUGHT NOT!!!! GROW UP & IF U CHOOSE TO BE IN A RELAIONSHIP...BE LOYAL & TRUE!!!!!!!!