I am 17 years old, barely 5ft and 85 lbs. And I always get, "Awww look at the baby?" Or "Are you in middle school? Are you aneroxic?" Why don't males like small and skinny girls anymore?
I know 14 years old with big boobs and everything else. Some of my friends told me I'd better start eating or I will never get any curves. They say it's hard for a black woman to get a man if she has no curves!
2006-09-13 13:37:40 · 16 answers · asked by Louis 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
that's not true i'm glad i was blessed with a nice body and long legs but i see skinny black girls it's not your fauly your just naturally skinny if they don't like it then screw them don't worry abou it
2006-09-13 13:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by flyinghigh006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they're jealous.
Curves are not just about weight. Everyone is built differently. You still have some growing to do so don't worry. If you want to put on weight then do it, but only do it for yourself
Don't listen to your so-called friends. It doesn't matter if you have curves or not, although a lot of men say they prefer curvy females it's not exactly going to put anyone off you.
Even if you are a black girl. That has nothing to do with it. The only relevance it has is that it's a stereotype so tell your friends to shut up and get real.
2006-09-13 20:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Fluffy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop people from picking on you; people are going to do all sorts of dumb things in your life time. What you must not do is let their comments negatively affect you. It can be hard because words do hurt. If you do eat and eat healthy, you can not help the type of build and fast metabolism that you have been blessed with. Males who only like girls with curvy bodies with big boobs are only looking on the outside; they are only thinking about sex. Consider it a blessing that you don't have to put up with superficial guys who only want you for sex. Don't occupy your time with people who only have negative things to say about you. That is not healthy for you soul and your well-being.
As you get older, you will gain more weight. Have you ever heard of the freshman 15? After high school, you will get a more adult body. In the meantime, hold your head up high and be confident about who you are. You will attract positive people who are not so shallow, who will like you just as you are because there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-09-14 09:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by truly 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.
I am 5 ft 4 and 96 pounds. I lack a gracious chest, nor am I sensously curvaceous (sp?). Granted, now, I'm single but I still catch the eye of the male population quite often.
Some guys like small skinny girls. Tons, in fact.
You're just fine. Trust me, there is some guy just waiting to worship you :-P
2006-09-13 20:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by beelz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Healthy girls get a slower puberty. Healthy guys get a faster puberty. That's actually how it works. So if your skinny and small and a girl, it means you are very healthy, have a good diet, and are physically fit. Take it as a gift. If people make fun of you, just think to yourself how lucky you are to be healthy. And girl, if you have a body thats way to big and curvy, you will attract the wrong guys. Its better to have a normal body so you attract normal guys.
2006-09-13 21:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say start picking on them, say aww just because your fat... , maybe start doing more exersize to gain weight, join a gym, or just have one session with a personal trainer to figure out what sort of food you should be eating, and what exersizes you can do to. Do some weights to increase muscle definition... Then when you're all buff, & they're teasing you, just say well I'm healthy & buff & hot, your fat & gross so back off...
Maybe they're actually just jealous, so they're trying to put you down to make themselves feel better? Not all guys like bigger girls, there are still guys out there who like smaller girls, I'm sure theres a gorgeous guy out there who'll like you just the way you are.
2006-09-13 20:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by idk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is not a thing in the world wrong with you. everybody is different. i was a very skinny teen too. i was 5'4" and weighed 89 lbs but you know what? i could wear anything i wanted to and look good in it, so can you. don't pay any attention to them. anyway, aren't all the top models skinny?
2006-09-13 20:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by GoAskAlice 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just change the attitude. be more positive and confidence. don't let your physical make you feel small and useless. physical attributes may have a big influence in life but if you have a positive mind, that will shine more than a curvy supermodel figure!
personally, i would look at beautiful girls but that's it, nothing more. if a confident girl with positive mind will attract me and register in my brain than a brainless hot chick!
2006-09-13 22:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by immortal1983 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was 17 I was the same size as you and I am 4ft 11in. Dont worry about it. Consider yourself lucky to be naturally skinny like that. When you get older it wont be so easy.
2006-09-13 20:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lucille 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's ok, you're developing, you will grow. Don't worry about guys now, that time will come...You can't change what people say or do, but you can have a positive attitude
2006-09-13 20:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by fireangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋