My ex girlfriend told me she wanted to still be friend when she broke up with me and she told me i didnt do anything wrong. She said take a break. She broke up with me in early august. I ve been in school for two weeks and she hasnt said a word to me. Im in 3 classes with her and she wont even look at me. We were good friends. i dont know what happened. I still want to be friends though, but theres nothing i can do.
2006-09-13 13:33:13 · 5 answers · asked by MagicGhost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i ve moved on and im looking for someone else
2006-09-13 13:44:02 · update #1
Maybe she has changed her mind. Losing a friendship is hard-I would know because I have experienced it sooo many times. Each time though I learn something new that helps me choose friends wiser. You will learn something too.
If you don't wanna go up and talk to her, you can try to meet new friends. Who knows? There might be a person wanting to be your friend. Don't give up.
2006-09-13 13:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't really ask a question but you still answered it yourself.
Sometimes, people you care about don't care about you the same way. It gets said a lot - let's still be friends...but that is an empty comment, that rarely ever works out. She wouldn't make that good of a friend anyway if you think about it considering how she is acting now.
You are looking for closure, you want to know what happened, but the more questions you ask, the more questions you will have...just take a deep breath, realize you weren't compatible and she isn't interested, and keep in mind that it is HER loss, not yours, if she doesn't even want to talk to you anymore...
2006-09-13 20:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, that happens generally often, things are just a bit aqward after dating. If you want to become her friend again, you're probably the one that would need to talk to her.
2006-09-13 20:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking she was just trying not to hurt you. Many people say "lets just be friends" so they don't have to hurt you to break up with you. Problem is, you think they are being sincere when they are not.
2006-09-13 20:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by val h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to go back to being just friends... Move on....
2006-09-13 20:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋