this grl who i thought was nice called me a geek and sneered. i'm a pretty average punk-rocker yet i have the preppy style and i'm a lil smart. am i considered, a geek? and how can i get back at her?
2006-09-13 13:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Pretty Innocent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
all i did was try to say hi, and i did have a comeback, o and im 13/14...
2006-09-13 13:42:17 · update #1
'punk-rocker' and 'geek' don't realy fit together. It's possible, but not too common. And geeks are not 'preppy', they are ugly and awkward. So i'd just ignore the comment(no matter what you are).
If you must get back at her, call her a name.
2006-09-13 13:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not all first impressions or thoughts of a person is correct. Anyway, why would you want to get back at her? If this is the case, I think I would be seeing people getting back at others everywhere, everytime.
I agree that what she did is not a nice thing, but if you do get back at her, wouldn't it put you in the same level as her? That's funny, if you know that what she did was wrong and hurting, why would you want to do it?
Actually there are lots of ways to get back at someone who have hurt you, but the best way is to repay evil with kindness. Sounds crazy, but it works and that person will feel even worse than what you have felt when they have hurt you although the results may not be immediate.
Another way is to ignore the whole thing. Forgive and forget. Although I agree its hard to do it, but try it. I, sometimes, was hurt by some people, who didn't? At some point or another in life, someone will have such an experience. But after a while, I started to think to myself, what's the point of getting back at that person? I'm just wasting my time in thinking of the whole thing.
If you have the time to think of how you're going to get back at a person, why don't you take the time to move forward, do not stay at the same point. Others have had the same experience, but they do not keep thinking of it, instead they do something else that cheers them up. Anyway take it as an experience, don't be like her.
The above are just some of my opinions for you, if you think what I am saying is ridiculous, just ignore it.
2006-09-13 20:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by carebears0408 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just plain stupid. I thought this one girl was nice too, and then she started saying I wore my jeans two days in a row and I didn't. Then I saw her wear her jeans for 5 days straight throughout the whole week! Smart doesn't mean you're a geek.
2006-09-13 20:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't there a Sheek Geek or something? She's probably just jealous of how smart, fun, funny, popular, pretty, outgoing, and/or cool you are and is trying to bring you down to her level. Don't let her, just give her a look like, "Whatever, you wish you were as great as me," and wald on by when you see her.
2006-09-13 20:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kim D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a geek...but she is a jerk. Don't try to get back her, but be prepared to make a comeback next time!
2006-09-13 20:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by jesus freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. She is jealous of your intellect! There will always be people like her around. You cant' concern yourself with trying to get revenge, or teaching them a lesson! As long as she doesn't put her hands on you, don't let her bad spirit keep your mind occupied.
2006-09-13 20:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't. you think you are mature, you don't need to "get back" at anyone. shrug it off. let her say what she wants.
2006-09-13 20:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even want to sink to her level just smile real big and that will kill her .......kill her with kindness
2006-09-13 20:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋