2006-09-13 12:22:25 · 21 answers · asked by susan9 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Confront her and ask her what her intentions were in contacting him? Sounds suspiciously sleazy!
2006-09-13 12:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by lcsotter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be sure your boyfriend isn't making up the situation and if you can be sure he's not,then ask your aunt. I sense you're either living with your aunt or have a close relationship with her? Perhaps your boyfriend is jealous for some reason. Ask yourself would your aunt typically behave in this manner... hope it helps...
2006-09-13 12:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Why would she do that? I'm surprised you have an aunt who's even remotely close enough to you that she feels she has the right to interfere in your relationships (unless of course she raised you). I don't think I'd talk to her for a very long time, and if she said something ugly enough, I'd yell at her or write her a letter sarcastically thanking her for her support, and then I'd stop talking to her for a very long time. Did she think she was doing you a favor? If she was, she was completely misguided.
2006-09-13 12:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit them both down and tell them that gossiping (if thats what it was) about you behind your back is not only rude, but makes you lose trust in both of them.
And tell you boyfriend, if the aunt calls again, and is talking badly about you, to end the conversation.
2006-09-13 12:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in heaven's world would she do that? And how did she get his number? It's very very very wierd for her to do that. Did she say bad things about you? If she did, then she has a serious mental issue. I mean, I can understand why your mother would do that, but your AUNT? Try talking to her to see what she's up to? or maybe talk to your boyfriend to see what she told him? I think you should go talk to your b/f first.
2006-09-13 12:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Worried about what they talked about? Ask them.........separately and see if they have the same story. Is your aunt hitting on your love? Dump her.........is your boyfriend hitting on your auntie? Dump him..........what else are you gonna do? Run around wondering what's going on forever?
2006-09-13 12:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by rere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word up:
everyone talks about everyone.
You just don't hear all the conversations. This is normal.
Whoever told you this happened is not being fair, as anything repeated from this converstaion will be taken out of context.
So you should not care.
2006-09-13 12:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be to hard on your Aunt, about this. But don't let it slide talk to her about what she said, why she said it and NOT to do it again. Don't yell, but be stern, it's your life and you deserve some privacy.
2006-09-13 12:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by emileasays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what she would say to the boyfriend, if it was good then hey, maybe she scored a couple of points for you! If it was bad, then I say ignore her for doing something immature like that. Good luck either way!
2006-09-13 12:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by untilyoucamealong04 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would call my aunts husband and talk about her...
2006-09-13 12:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Delete System32 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what did she say about you? why did she do it? how close are you and your aunt??
maybe she has a good reason??? maybe she said something good???
Talk with her!
2006-09-13 12:30:29 · answer #11 · answered by christine a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋