I've done it 3 times..a diff partner each time and it feels the same each time..at first I thought it was my partner not doing it right but now I think its me, I can feel when my G spot is being hit, but the feeling is weird, not sensational..HELP ME!
2006-09-13 11:59:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You might need to relax during this time. Try masterbating with yourself to see where it feels good to you. Then you can try it again. You might be just nervous and not relaxing. There are disorders where somewoman just can't, true disorders. If this continues I would see the doctor.
2006-09-13 12:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, sex is mainly between the ears, ie your head. How did you grow up learning about sex, in a positive or negative way? That could be an issue. The other could be your partners or even yourself, not knowing what feels good to your body. The vast majority of women experience pleasure/orgasm thru clitoral stimulation. Are you having oral sex? Sex is an attitude, a mood, a feeling, something that should bring pleasure. Its interesting you mention gspot after having sex only 3 times.....the gspot when pressurized will usually give intense orgasm (with clitoral stimulation).....Good luck !
2006-09-13 12:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the risk of sounding vulgar are you actually horny when you're having sex or are you doing it just to do it. Cause my first couple times I wasn't into in and I didn't enjoy it at all. Make sure the person you're with gets you in the mood and it's someone you want to be in bed with. I'm not saying you have to LOVE the person but just make sure it's someone you feel comfortable with. If it's still occurring, you may have a cyst. That happened to a friend of mine. Make an appointment for a full pap and tell your doc about it.
2006-09-16 10:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be your body. it might be your partners. And it might be how you think about it all. Don't expect fireworks every time. That puts undue stress and pressure on you that may be robbing you of an otherwise pleasurable experience. Find someone you feel close to mentally, emotionally and physically. See if love and a close bond changes those sensations for you. Good luck.
2006-09-13 12:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone with whom you feel comfortable talking with about this and have a long conversation over the specific details.
You could very well be doing it wrong.
You could have an STD.
Your partner could be hurting you.
Sex video sex is NOT sex, it is entertainment and a fantasy created by editors and video.
There is an actual case of a couple trying to have a child and found out he was putting his penis where she pees instead of her vagina.
2006-09-13 12:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by KnowSean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very likely that you have had 3 loves that were inexperienced which left you lacking in the experience.
However there is always the possibility that something else isn't quite right... Consult a doctor...there may be amedical reason and you certainly would want to know.
2006-09-13 12:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not I don't care for sex either. I thought something was wrong with me, but I found out 3 months ago that I'm just a pleaser and I'm good at it, too.
2006-09-13 12:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be doing sex in the first place! If it feels weird to you, it's probably your consience saying "Stop!" You should really stop, if it still doesn't feel good after 3 times, it might get worse.
2006-09-13 12:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by mysteriousmystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY WIFE WAS ON THAT DEPO SHOT THAT SHOT SUCKS
BECAUSE
IT TAKE AWAY FROM THE GIRL SEX URGE AND SHE HAS BEEN OFF OF IT FOR 7 YRS NOW AND HER URGE STILL ANT CAME BACK BEFOR SHE GOT ON IT WE HAD SEX 3 OR 4 TIMES A DAY IF NOT MORE AND NOW I WILL BE REAL LUCKY IF I GET IT 1 EVERY MONTH OR TWO
2006-09-13 12:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by kingkong9274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just too young to be having sex, especially with so many partners.
2006-09-13 12:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋