Help!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

I am in 8th grade and today was the worst day of my life, There were all kind of rumors started about me, This one boy YELLED at me for liking another boy, IT WAS HORRIABLE!!!! What can i do to just pretend that nothing happend, Has anybody ever had this happen?? If yes, what happend. what did u do to make everyine think u were ok.

Answer 1

yup...i liked this guy for almost two years and we were at almost opposite ends of the social scale...him being at the bottom...so i got called everything you can think of when people found out, and i seriously thought he didnt like me and right when i was giving up and the thought of that...he asked me out...and we've been together seven months. you just gotta ignore these people, they mgiht be jelous, scared that you'll get the guy they like, or maybe his friends dont like you for some reason, that happened to me too. i very clearly told the friend that i couldnt care less about what he said to me (with some words that i wont put on here) but that we could be nice when we had to be around each other. so that fixed that problem. as for the other people...they got used to it, some still tell me im stupid for going out with him, but people say the same thing to him about me. but most people say we look cute together and that kinda thing. so yeah dont let those people get to you...and my gosh unless youre like totally in love with this guy dont let it become a big deal...you could like someone else next week.

oh yeah, im in 8th grade too☺

Answer 2

The boy who was yelling at you for it seems to be for no reasons at all is apparently just jealous that you like another boy and not him. I would totally ignore him.he will stop doing this foolish stuff as soon he figures out that you don't pay any attention to him.You could even turn this around on him and make him look like a fool by saying to him that he could not thing from twelve to noon when he keeps being a fool and say things they are not true.He should check his sources before entering a new dimension.He will be so embarrassed because you said that in front of his friends, that he will stop.If he doesn't stop, than he doesn' t have any brain at all.
Well, when I grew up, older boys in school used to tease me because of my name.I was just running after them, caught them and I kicked them in the "family jewels". I am not saying that you should do the same, but it helped me a lot to shut this boys up.They have been good friends with me until we had to graduate.My Mom got quiet a few phone calls from the boys mothers, but my mother really had my back.

Answer 3

Some people will always believe every rumor they hear and will love to spread it around. but other people will watch the way you talk and act and decide whether they believe them or not. Keep yourself a level above your attackers and just ignore them. They'll move on to another target when they can't get a rise out of you. If someone directly tells you that so and so said this and that about you just say, "All I can tell you is that it's lies and more lies, but if that's what you wanna believe, then tell me now so I can quit wasting your time standing here talking to you."
Show yourself to be more mature than your attackers.

Answer 4

I know this may seem like the end of your world and it probably is for the time being. But you will look back on this in ten years and think "I was so foolish". That's if you even remember this. But for now I guess just lay low and think of ways to get back at this boy, like just stop talking to him altogether. It will drive him crazy. And if your friends are true to you, they will not believe the rumors or at least come to you first and try and clear things up.

Answer 5

I"m in high school, but nothing like this has ever happened to me. I know a bunch of mean kids at school who do similar things tho. Okay. to Stop it. take CONTROL. If someone is screaming at you.. scream harder and louder. Tomorrow u need to put people back in their place. go up to the people and firmly tell them to stop. it takes guts.. but you have to stand your ground!

ps.. like all u folk who think "it will go away" are soo wrong. in 7-8th grade we messed with this girl all the time.. she ignored us. It made us want to do worse things to get her attention. I'm being honest to help u out. listen in 10th grade we tried the same thing on this super big senior. She turned around and told us off! She was like.. "you stupid "b!tches" stop before I kick ur @ss's." and we did! we walked the other way when we saw her. Because the last thing we wanted was to be beat.. so anyway.. umm good luck.

Answer 6

nicely you imagine about the guy each and every of the time. each and every time you spot him you sense tickles on your abdomen. You get very anxious round him. you want to do something to save him chuffed and also you sense like your contained in the clouds. for sure don't be fooled by employing a weigh down they have really a lot an same indications yet you'll recognize even as this is love. it really is a deep, good feeling that you won't be able to get rid of.

Answer 7

I know you are humiliated beyond belief. You sound like a pretty nice guy. Just hold your head high, square your shoulders, smile at people, swallow hard and in 2 or 3 days those same bully's will find someone else to pick on. Don't retaliate. It usually comes back to kick you in the butt. In time they will get their just reward from someone who is meaner. You and your friends will remember this experience and will learn from it. I'm sure when you have kids of your own you will teach them not to do what was done to you. Good Luck to You.

Answer 8

Im in 8th grade to. Im sure you heard this before, but its the truth. If you forget about it others will. They laugh about it at the time, but your issues don't concern them as much as you think they do. Just wait for the whole thing to blow over which it will. And just talk to your friends, don't listen to people who aren't your friends, or who started the rumors, they just want to hurt you.

Answer 9

You first need to remember you're in school for an education--everything else is considered extra-curricular activities!

Just keep being yourself and be proud of who you are, try to forget it (somethings are inevitable), continue with your current life, deal with things a day at a time because time is a key point to any solution.

Answer 10

Write down all of your feelings in a diary entry. If you have a friend who wasn't involved, tell her. Then move on and forget about it. It won't be easy, and you will remember it and it will be horrible for you, but everyone else will forget in 4 days or less, garaunteed. If somebody doesn't and makes everyone else remember, be sarcastic. Say "Thanks! I love it when you copy me, it's great to know some people have a crush on me" or something like that.