so...its such a long long story...last year i went in france(im from europe...)i went there with a teacher and other 6 ppl...and i felt in love with one of the boys i couldnt tell him this because he had a girl friend(that was at home)...anyway...after we got home ive forgot about him because i couldnt see him anymore...but a few weeks a go ive found him on hi5 and i was sooo happy:) and now i know that he is single and a friend of he gave me a comment on hi5 and after that a gave her a message and now we are chating on yahoo and i discoverd that she was hes girl friend when we where in france/:)...but now they are just friends...and the problem is that i dont know what to do...plz help:D...and sorry if i had any mistakes:)
2006-09-13 11:50:35 · 5 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no..now he isnt in france he is at home
2006-09-13 12:01:48 · update #1
well...that girl isnt my friend!! i dont event know her! i mean i know her but only from yahoo and hi5...so i never saw her but i know that this girl is in the same class with him
2006-09-13 12:06:00 · update #2
well...i think he dont like me anymore(because i have a feeling that when whe where in france he liked me)but now uts too late:(
2006-09-13 13:36:50 · update #3
Don't let her know that you are in love with him. Find out all the good and bad things about him from her. See if that's appealing to you. Realize, however, he may just want to get in your pants. Test the guy out. Later, make a judgement call of who you want to keep as a friend. Him or her? If both, realize that you could be caught in some kind of sick and twisted triangle of some sort. That is no good. It's better to choose. Most likely, you may end up with a good friend. Personally, I thinks that the guy just wants to bone you. Otherwise he would have made it a point to be able to get a hold of you for later.
2006-09-13 12:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by j.tech_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.. interent realtionships usuall consist of alot of words with little or no action at all. How long did you know this guy..?? A week or less??
If I were you I'd steer clear of internet relationships, they often lead to disaster. You cant always believe what someone tells you on the net, just be advised.
If you reallllllly like him test the waters.. if you want see if he wants to mee for a weekend.. Talk about just more than movies and what not. Talk about things that really matter
NEVER date someone you cant see you self being with in the next 5 years or married to.
2006-09-13 11:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Shalamar Rue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over if he's not still in France and get to know him. Ask him out! Make sure that it's ok with your friend, though, and decide who is more important, your friend or the boy? If it's not a good friend your answer might be the boy and that's fine. But if it's a good friend (and it doesn't sound like it, because you didnt know she dated the boy) don't choose the boy. Who will you confide in if you get rid of her?
2006-09-13 12:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he still in france? if not hook up with him if he feels the same way you deserve to be happy to good luck
2006-09-13 11:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by mcdanieljoanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..DOES HE LIKE U???
cuase if he does..then..flirt some..and then if he flirts back.then..u guys could hook up or soemthing/?
just do decide before any other drama happends.
2006-09-13 13:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by applebottom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋