Let me preface this by saying its easier to say this here than face to face of one of my friends. I think I may be pregnant but I dont know if I should tell my boyfriend until I am close enough to my next cycle to have a preg test done. I've been pregnant before [miscarriage] and am feeling the same way I did before that [miscarraige] happened, ie; tired, grumpy, hungry, frequent urination, stuffy nose etc etc.
I just dont want to get his hopes up and dont want him to think that by telling him prematurely that I'm trying to trap him [if that makes sense].
2006-09-13 11:36:16 · 15 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I really think you should get a pregnancy test to confirm whether or not you are pregnant. Your past history of a miscarriage should make you want to seriously begin prenatal care ASAP, if needed.
The symptoms you're having could really be almost anything--PMS, pre-menopause, thyroid problems, even a combination of thyroid problems and diabetes--anything. So you really need to get a pregnancy test done to find out what is going on with your body. (Don't think you're "fine" like I did--I ended up in the hospital for a week with 4 different kinds of diagnoses! I'm still paying for it today--health wise!)
As for telling your boyfriend prior to confirmation of your pregnancy, is really your own personal choice. Everyone reacts differently to different situations--and you should know him better than anyone else.
Good luck on your results and choice(s).
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2016-11-07 06:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont stress. You have to get over that if your pregnant or not. It's just not sane living.
Go to a free clinic to find out or you and your man can take the test together. You need some supposrt. No matter what because your hopes are up I can tell cause your asking on Yahoo.
Look on the bright side at least you know you can get pregnant. Oh and pray. God kept me through peace from our first misscarriage
2006-09-13 11:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jason & Milly T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are,... ,which could make alot of difference in how you should handle this! Find someone with a clear head on their shoulders,someone who would have your best interest at heart! I wouldn't tell the b/f, until you find out ,of course! If this comes out, and you are not pregnant,...PLEASE,...be very careful from now on !!!! These kinds of things can be avoided these days! You have plenty of time to have babies, ok!!!!! Good luck,... I truly mean it!!!!!!!
2006-09-13 12:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i was in the same situation just this week i thought i might be pregnat. (still don't know) any way i had to think about the same thing i decided to tell my boy friend (acutally were getting married) i figure if its something this important they need to know just in case so they can help prepare for the new arival. well i hope i helped a little if you want you can e-mail me at ardcjc04891688@yahoo.com
2006-09-13 11:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by ardcjc04891688 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait to tell him until you know for sure. Once you know for sure then tell him.
If you don't for sure and end up not being pregant and you've told him you think you are, he might think you were playing with his emotions. I had a friend who went through this same thing and that's how it went down with her.
But once you know tell him right away, don't let him hear it from someone else before he hears it from you. If there's a chance he could hear it from someone else before you know for sure, you should go ahead and tell him, now.
Good Luck!
2006-09-13 11:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by sasifrass13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get a free preg. test and find out. They will be able to tell you if they do a blood test. The sooner you do it the sooner you'll have peace of mind.
2006-09-13 11:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by blissful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should let him know that you are having his child. And if he really loves you he will be a responsabel dad. Both of you should enjoy this 9 months for the rest of your lifes. EFIL
2006-09-13 11:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't say anything until you know for sure...duh.
And as far as telling him at all, he has a right to know...it's his too.
You may want to make it clear later that "it just happened" and that you're "not trying to trap him" just in case he's not down.
2006-09-13 11:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tell him right away and take the test while he is there. If it comes back negative and you are still feeling these symptoms and you've missed your .... i think you should schedule an appt. w/your dr. Better off knowing right away!
2006-09-13 11:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋