And my family they dont either I am going to college trying to make sometihing of myself and there is no one there to support me I am lonely please help what should I do?
2006-09-13 11:32:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, with your family, I would say something. I went to school over 1500 miles away from my family, so I expected them to call me alot, and they didn't. I think they were trying to give me my space since they probably expected I was out busy all of the time, and didn't want to come off like they were checking up on me.
With your friends, get new ones, and talk to the old ones when they make the effort to call you. Maybe seeing that you're not making an effort will ring a little bell in their heads and they will realize that they have neglected your friendship. Unless you can think of something bad that you did, they have probably gotten caught up in their own lives and they are probably not trying to be malicious.
2006-09-13 11:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not feel lonely - feel lucky. You have all of this time for yourself. College needs all of your time and attention. Let it be you who goes and looks for people when you want to. I will tell you that I have been there done that. Sometimes I even get frustrated when I have tons of homework and everybody shows up out of the blue. Even my mom or brother showing up frustrates me; to me my school work is all that matters for now.
2006-09-13 11:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyinred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it fairly is stressful even as human beings ask you about something, you answer, and they don't care after wards. i recognize what you recommend. i have under no circumstances been sturdy at making pals. i have made an ok type of "college pals", yet on the grounds that i have graduated intense college, none of them fairly count number anymore. I easily have a lot of facebook pals, yet I under no circumstances see those pals anymore, both. All I easily have are about 4 sturdy pals and my boyfriend. I easily were pals with one on the grounds that i develop into 12, and something i have met by her. Making pals is demanding for shy, introverted human beings like me. And being that i'm not in college, i do not fairly have any possibilities to make new pals (not that i favor them a lot, i guess...yet nonetheless). i recognize this is fairly not an same, yet I went by maximum of instantly ahead college without actual pals. So i will comprehend the way you sense. i do not fairly have any suggestion for you regardless of the reality that, except transforming into a member of golf equipment and all that, that you do not prefer to take heed to, or conversing to human beings on your education, and once you've a interest, making pals out of your co workers. And in basic terms like you stated, it does take a lengthy time period to make a very sturdy chum. you look to be a valuable individual. i'm sorry you haven't any individual to lean on at present. quite some human beings look to love you the following, regardless of the reality that, so i'm positive each person might want to be prepared to, not less than, examine with you, and help you vent in case you want to. and that i'm positive you may make a lot of pals IRL in case you would possibly want to discover someplace to do it. impressive desires.
2016-11-26 22:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by duggins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times you have to reach out to your firends. or try to find new friends. I am right now in a place where many of the people I really concider friends are far away from me.
2006-09-13 12:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by midesweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they do not come over to say hi then they are not your friends any way
2006-09-13 11:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by SAMNANTHA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider them thinking you are busy trying to make something of yourself.. : )thats all i can think of...
2006-09-13 11:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you gone to see them or called them ?
2006-09-13 11:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋