Yeah ok like 2 weeks ago , me and my boyfriend went to this wild and crazy party. And I don't know what happened after that but like I woke up in some bed with a guy that wasn't my boyfriend... Then like yesterday I took a pregnancy test and it said i was pregnant... What should I do???
I am not even in high school yet
2006-09-13 11:29:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First, go get an AIDS test and have the doctor check you for other STD's
Second, ...I really don't have any more advice for you...it's a really phucked up situation...
Your parents aren't doing their job...you shouldn't even have a boyfriend at what 13? 14?
You sure as hell shouldn't be at a party at that age
You sure as hell shouldn't be doing drugs or drinking or doing whatever it is that made you "end up in some bed" and not know what happened...
And now you're knocked up??
Jesus...that's a great start in life...don't ever take your pants off again.
2006-09-13 11:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and see a doctor - how exactly did you get a pregnancy test anyway? And what business does a not-even-in-high-school-yet kid have being at a "wild and crazy party?" I think your parents had better keep you in for a while...
2006-09-13 18:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Penn State Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well number 1 is that if you are that young and you were out at a party where were your parents. number 2 talk with an adult that you trust and can depend on because obviously your parents have not got a clue as to what is going on with you and your life. number 3 you are too young to be a parent and you evidently will not learn how to be one from your parents either . number 4 there are a lot of couples out there looking to adopt a child who can provide the child with all that it will need which at your age you will not be able to. if you are not sure who the father is then you will be able to give the child up without any conflict. if you want to do what is best for this child and yourself give it up and learn a valuable lesson from this.
2006-09-13 18:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by kimber1731 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young for parties like that...to young for sex and you are in trouble. but...before you lose your head over this...please consider the following. your boyfriend is not an issue unless the baby is his. secondly...talk to your parents if you don't think they will kill you. if you think they will, go to an adult you trust. they can run interference and help protect you. then go to the doctor to get a real test done and some counseling. you are very young to be pregnant and deliver a baby. seriously consider giving it up for adoption so it can have a life and you can too. also get tested for diseases. and once you take care of this - and don't even think you can take care of a baby - you cannot...you are way too young...please consider abstinence. if you know who this other guy is, make sure you give his name to your parents. if he is legal and you are jail bait his balls should be chopped off. lastly...shame on your parents for allowing you to go to a party like that and for not teaching you that you are good for more than a lay. you are just a baby. you can come and live with me - i will gladly raise the kid! and i will gladly knock some sense into you as well!
2006-09-13 18:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by firenice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to a pregnancy care center or teen sex clinic in your area. They will help you with counselling and extra testing (STD's and pregnancy). They have to keep all of your information confidential, if you feel comfortable tell your parents or an adult that you trust. Don't make any rash decisions without looking at all the facts and options. The clinic will be able to give you all the support you need, I think you need to seek them out quickly before you do something drastic!
2006-09-13 18:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the doctor and get a blood test, HIV test and and STD test. You could be more at risk than just an unplanned pregnancy. I wish you the best and I hope everything works out.
2006-09-13 18:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents, and tell your boyfriend and sorry to say this but you are a little too young to get pregnant. and to go to a wild party.
2006-09-13 18:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh god! You need a lot of help! you are not even in high school yet? Last advice: Talk your parents and see what they can do with you!
2006-09-13 18:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by kathy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good job with that... what the hell is wrong with you? Go get tested for diseases... Consider adoption. You obviously have no business being a mother.
2006-09-13 18:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents immediately...you obvious didn't know how to handle a situation like this in the first place.
2006-09-13 18:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by sleepysheep 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋