I just turned 19 like a week ago, and I just started going out with my new bf who will be 20 in like 2 months,anyway im so in love with him, and I want to have a baby with him, but my family says I am 2 young.
2006-09-13 11:21:35 · 15 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Way too young. Get out and see the world and be what you can be. It will make you a better mother. Babies should not have babies!
2006-09-13 11:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are way too young. You may not be able to understand this now, but in ten years you will hardly recognize the person you are today. There is absolutely no rush. If you love him, spend your time with him building a solid, loving relationship. Once you've been married a couple of years and are sure that the environment you've created is fit, ready and prepared for a child, then start planning a family. Just slow down, darlin'. Relax and enjoy your youth.
2006-09-13 11:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by miguelitabonita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 21 is better for the baby, for me 19 is young.
2006-09-13 12:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is too young, not to mention what about the commitment, education, finances. Doesn't sound like you've been together too long. Wait until you've lived together, married, know eachother better. Are you financially stable to raise a baby (on your own if - God forbid - something ahppens and you end up alone)? Finish school, go to college! Just wait it out dear!
2006-09-13 12:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're still a baby yourself. You have no idea how much you still don't know. You have a lot of living to do before you have kids. Go to college, live a little, get drunk, throw up, graduate, play the field, then settle down. And by the way - boyfriend? Why not career first, husband second, then baby? And no, you're NOT in love with him. You're infatuated, and that'll die within six months, if not sooner.
2006-09-13 11:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have only been with your boyfriend for a short time then I think you should wait. In that aspect you are to young. this is a life you are talking about, not a toy that if you get sick of it just get rid of it. what is the rush anyway. if you still feel this way in a few years then go ahead. just make sure you have a good paying job kids don't come free. just wait!
2006-09-13 11:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by cristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey but if you feel that you need to ask this question I feel your parents may be right...its not a question of age...itsa whether or not your ready for the responsibility.
Give up the idea for a while and have fun and get to know your guy...because sometimes the first flush of love can very quickly go downhill....you need to get to know your boyfriend and he you before you make one almighty blunder that you will not be able to forget . As I said..enjoy your youth whilst you can...your a long time with responsibilities when they arrive at your doorstep without inviting them there in the first place.
2006-09-13 11:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Sunseaandair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 19 is definitely too young. I'm 26 and I think I'm still too young!! Live your life...enjoy yourself!!
2006-09-13 11:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. You just starting dating this guy, and for you all you he will run if you get pregnant on purpose.
You need to grow up and be on your own.
2006-09-13 11:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! Girl take your time and have fun with him first go out enjoy each other. Babies slow you down and they won't help you keep that new bf when he's ready to move on to someone new!! TRUST ME I KNOW!!!!
2006-09-13 11:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by babephatt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋